Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of femdom and what attracted you to it?  

When I was younger I dated a guy who had a submissive side, but it wasn’t until I started camming that I realized there were SO many submissive guys with different kinks and fetishes. I have always been an assertive woman, so femdom is a pretty natural fit for me.    

How long have you been a domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?  

I’ve always been very bratty, and I think I was a domme before I even classified myself as such. There were many occasions in school where I would kick guys in the balls or verbally abuse them if they were rude to me, and I was often labeled as a firecracker or spitfire. But officially I have been exploring the world of female domination for about 4 years.   I’ve noticed especially in the last year that people are being very aware and outspoken about certain kinks and fetishes that they deem immoral or socially harmful. I won’t comment on anything specifically but it seems this is something that people are becoming very passionate about as of lately.    

What are some of your most memorable moments as a femdomme?  

One of my submissives followed through on a forced bi instruction I gave him. He met up with a guy from grindr, sucked his dick, and recorded it live for me – with his consent, of course. That was pretty entertaining, as it was his first time!   Another fond memory was one of my financial slaves who overnighted $5,000 in cash to me. I allowed him to stroke himself briefly after I picked up my money.   I was also recently interviewed for Rolling Stone online (you can find the link on my twitter @TheCandyGlitter), and that was a fun experience!    

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow femdommes may be surprised to find out.  

I am a huge musical theatre lover. I love broadway theatre. My favorite show of all time is Cabaret. One of my slaves purchased me Hamilton tickets, so that is very exciting!    

What are some things you wish you knew about being a domme before you started?  

There isn’t a one size fits all approach to being a dominant!    

If you could change one thing about the femdom industry, what would it be?  

I’d love to destigmatize femdom and sex work in general. People can be very judgmental, but I pay taxes just like everyone else.    

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?  

Forced Bi, Cuckolding, Financial Domination, Sissy Training / Feminization, Cum Eating Instructions.    

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?  

I’m actually pretty open to most fetishes. I love strange, random, and taboo fetishes. I consider myself a fetish enthusiast. However, I won’t partake in anything that harms those who have not given consent. Other than that, most things are fair game in my world!    

Outside of femdom, what are some of your hobbies?  

I love traveling, I have several international vacations planned for the next year. I also love staying at home – listening to podcasts, watching Netflix, baking, and gardening! Stand up comedy and music are also interests of mine.    

Does femdom actually turn you on? If not, what does?  

Yes, it does! I love being in a position of power, and I love pushing my submissive to their limits. It gives me a rush. It turns me on, but it doesn’t get me off.   What makes me cum, you ask? That’s for me to know and you to maybe find out. I bet if you purchased one of my cuckolding clips you could hear all about it. Or perhaps Skype with me and I’ll tell you all about it! Ha!    

What are some of your turn offs?  

When subs attempt to top from the bottom.    

Describe your ideal slave / sub.  

Open minded, aware of his limits and desires, respectful of my time, communicative.    

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?  

It is possible to be decisive when you’re a submissive, and I enjoy that. So, if you’d like to impress me, be up front with your dirty little fantasies, and respect my time. Do not attempt to wiggle yourself into my perfect world without booking skype time, buying my clips, or tributing.   Want to really go above and beyond? Pay for something that doesn’t benefit you and your dick. I have an expansive wishlist that reaches far beyond the typical items such as lingerie and high heels. I love fitness related items and household items!    

What is your favorite aspect of being a femdomme?  

A lot of people say “I love being my own boss”, but I love being my own boss and I love bossing around my subs!   Being a femdomme has given me a great outlet for my creativity and sass. I’m afraid that if it weren’t for my slaves and submissives, the other men in my life would suffer greatly. Just kidding, kind of.    

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?  

I absolute love creating clips. I’ve always loved being on camera. It comes very naturally to me. The creative and technical aspects of it are very enjoyable for me as well. I enjoy bringing fantasies to life with custom clips, too.   Cam shows are very fun for me. It’s so fun being able to boss around my submissives in real time. And nothing beats being able to see their reaction to my beauty and wit, some of them are so awestruck and nervous, it’s hilarious!   I do offer real time sessions and cash point meets, but I am highly selective. All of the fetishes I partake in online, I have also experienced in real time – either during a session or in my personal life.    

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow dommes and subs?  

Thanks to Mika for setting up this site!   Fellow Domes: Feel free to follow me on twitter, I love making hot new friends!   Subs: If you’re still reading this, it’s obvious that you’re intrigued. So reach out to me and submit yourself. I know you want to.  

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