Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I stumbled upon it by chance when some friends of mine said I was acting like a domina. I didn’t know what it meant at the time so I researched it, and found that it was a perfect fit for my personality. Ever since childhood I’ve been the boss of boys and men. When I was about 5 years old, I told my two friends, who were little boys at the time, that I was now their Queen, and they were my slaves. I even demanded they roll in a puddle of mud for me. Nothing has changed haha      

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I’ve been a Domme since 2012. The main difference is that there’s a lot of newbies who start out with absolutely no clue. There’s also more of Dommes who try cutting each other down and a lot of competition and rivalry which I find stupid. We’re supposed to be sisters.      

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Building a great relationship with my subs over time. I’ve gotten a diploma in psychology so I can better understand and help my owned subs. I actually cured my long term subs anxiety and depression, and helped him get a job. I try my hardest to be a great leader for them.      

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I’m a skilled archer and fisher. I love doing both during the summer.      

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I wish I knew that it would pay off starting an online presence. I’ve been keeping to myself for years and just recently started marketing myself online.      

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

I’d change that there’s so much drama involved. Having a community that helps each others out instead of tearing each other down. Most dommes do, at least with me, but there’s always going to be a few ones who just want to spread negative feedback.      

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

I do love petplay and verbal humiliation. But also findom. Any fetish that makes me in complete control where my subs can just relax and enjoy the experience is my favorite.      

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

I don’t do anything I’m not completely comfortable doing.      

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Fishing, archery, reading comic books, cooking gourmet food, playing games. I’m extremely fond of Diablo 3      

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Absolutely it does! Having a sub approach me respectfully, and later having them completely in the palm of my hand, even paying for things I want, just to please me, is such a turn on! Having someone trust me enough to give me all that control, is exhilarating.      

What are some of your turn offs?

I absolutely hate ignorant people. I don’t mind educating people, but when you blatantly reject what I try teaching and show no will to try to understand, it’s definitely a turn off. I also do not like subs complaining about having to pay. I’m not a professional because I do things for free.      

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

He’s confident, humble, kind, communicates well, intelligent, and very easy going. Even if he doesn’t have a lot of confidence, that’s something I can fix.      

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Giving me his life. Refusing all others to serve me for the rest of his life.      

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

The trust between a sub and Domme. The power exchange. The great and surprisingly intimate relationship you develop with someone. It’s hard to put into words.      

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

Well I haven’t started performing in clips or cam yet, but I’ve been performing in person the last 5 years. And it’s absolutely fantastic. Feeling like and acting like an all powerful goddess. Being my subs sun during a scene. It’s a feeling that can’t be easily explained.      

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Despite being only 23 years of age, I’ve got a lot of experience. I wish we wouldn’t take someone’s age into light when judging a character. I also hope to be more involved with fellow Dommes as I think we can teach each other a lot, learn from each other and support each other. And subs, don’t be scared of contacting me. As long as you’re humble, polite and honest, and of course, know what I do, there’s nothing to be scared of.  

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