Domme Spotlight Interview

Lady Valencia

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How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

Lady Valencia

I discovered it around the age of 18 but didn’t really get into it outside of my personal life until this past summer. I love how it makes me feel empowered and how it empowers other females.      

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How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

Lady Valencia

I’ve Dommed on and off since I was 18, privately and professionally. I have had to become tech savvy. It used to be mostly in person which I actually prefer. It makes getting to know your subs a lot easier and it’s more personal.      

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What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Lady Valencia

Pegging and doing cbt on an asshole who raped his girlfriend. She paid me and he complied.      

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Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

Lady Valencia

Haha. Not sure I have any that would shock anyone.      

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What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

Lady Valencia

How much time it takes to get established, especially if you keep going in and out of Domming.      

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If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

Lady Valencia

To completely take out any power males still have in it.      

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What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Lady Valencia

I love CBT, ball busting, total power exchange, and forced bi.      

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Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Lady Valencia

JOI because I believe that all subs should be locked permanently.      

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Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Lady Valencia

Traveling, reading historical fiction, psychology, comedy shows, and board games.      

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Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Lady Valencia

Most of the time it does. I like being sexually submissive with certain men.      

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What are some of your turn offs?

Lady Valencia

JOI, laziness, lack of dedication, flakiness, lack of commitment, and lying.      

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Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Lady Valencia

Handsome would be a plus but is not needed. A slave that lets me control every little aspect of his life. A slave that is always locked. A slave that listens, relinquishes control of his finances, is committed, and is intelligent.      

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What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Lady Valencia

Start by sending an impressive initial tribute. Then go out of his way to figure out what I like and do it without being asked.      

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What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Lady Valencia

The feeling of power and control.      

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Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

Lady Valencia

I’m not that into making clips unless they’re custom ordered. Cam is fun if the payment is worth it. In person is my favorite. I offer all.      

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Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Lady Valencia

Subs-Don’t waste a Domme’s time, think about your limitations as far as serving, send an initial tribute when approaching a Domme, and send at least $100.   Dommes-It’s hard work and you need to be or become tech savvy.  

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