Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I discovered FemDom and BDSM in general pretty much when I discovered the internet. I’d always had inklings growing up, always knew that I was kinky or attracted to certain “charged” situations (as a kid, playing “kidnapper/tie up” games with peers, riding on the backs of boys and making them into My horse, I was always doing stuff like that) and as I grew up, as soon as I found out there was actually a name for these things, for exactly how I felt. But nothing has helped Me come into My own as much as latex has. Something about wearing it, especially things like catsuits, makes me feel EXTRA dominant.  

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I’ve been a lifestyle kinkster for about 6 years, and have only begun this foray into online domination in approx. the last year and a half. Since I’m still fairly new to online domination, I haven’t seen too many changes in the industry yet, although I have seen growing interest in FemDom amongst women and SW in general online, which I think is awesome!

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Sealing someone into a vacbed for their first time. Having a sub dump an entire cake on himself and rub it all over, for his birthday, on Skype. Receiving 6k on St. Patrick’s Day “for drinks”. Watching a subs’ eyes glaze over in total subspace. Extravagant latex shopping sprees. I have so many moments.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I absolutely LIVE for Ru Paul’s Drag Race. So obsessed. Drag queens are so fun and entertaining on so many levels, they always make Me happy, and I get sooooo many ideas for sissies.

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

That there isn’t only “one true way” to be a FemDom. Each of us has our own strengths and interesting x-factors, our own kinks. As long as it’s all about Me, I’m enjoying it and it’s a interesting dance between Me and the sub, then really, what else matters?

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Latex, obviously, as a #1. I have so many favourites, I love findom, erotic hypnosis and mesmerize, humiliation, and JOI to name a few. I’m the JOI master. :P

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Something that comes up occasionally that I just don’t have very much personal attachment to, is AB/DL. Absolutely nothing against this fetish, not shaming, just not really My area of expertise.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I love musical theatre, makeup, shopping, and fashion. I’m obsessed with pop culture, soaking it up and using it for My own art. I am also obsessed with travelling. In the past year I went to Tokyo, LA, Florida, New York, Amsterdam, Barcelona, Portugal and Venice. I like to travel as often as possible. There is so much world to see!

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Oh yes, absolutely. There is nothing sexier than having someone worship you. When a sub hurts for Me, takes the pain or humiliation because I decide they will, it is totally a rush. To know that I am blowing their fucking mind by just being My fabulous self, makes Me smile. I am happy to give a sub his FemDom fix, and I get turned on by the money they spend to get it.

What are some of your turn offs?

SMALL BUDGETS.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

An open, positive kinky mind. They can be advanced in their kinks, or just beginners. You don’t have to be a millionaire (but that’s also totally fine) but be advanced enough, to have enough money that your decision to pay Me isn’t a stressful one. Someone who enjoys communication and regular hands-on training. Someone who is totally fucking in love with Me.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Buy Me a pair of Louboutins. Take a fist in the ass. Suck a real cock and film it for Me.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

That I can do whatever I like. It’s the ultimate freedom, the ultimate control to drop social norms and rules, and it’s just Me and a sub, in the world I’m creating. I love getting to wear latex all the time, I love how it feels! It’s the fabric of the future and I get to lounge in it all day. Yum.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I do not offer in person sessions, but I love making clips and I LOVE Skype. Skype is My favourite way, truly, to train a sub. It’s the most spontaneous, the truest form of My personality. With clips, sometimes I feel like I’m giving full-tilt 100% Domme 100% of the time, because that’s the goal. With Skype, it can be a little easier to nuance the training and give a really personal experience. I love the camera, I’ve always been the centre of attention, so I feel quite comfortable with filming and on screen.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

I am so inspired by all of you, every single day. My drive to keep making hot content and pushing it to the next level comes from watching all the other amazing FemDom ladies killing it, and the subs who truly love the art I create and fall victim to it. Thank you for this chance to live My fantasy for real, everyday. 

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