Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

The very first paragraph of my website states it best. “My earliest recognized “kink” was realizing that I craved control over everything in my life. I was dominant and controlling, even as a child.” It was a natural progression for me, as even in my high school and college days, I already had a following of men that catered to my every whim.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I’ve been a Professional Dominatrix for just over 10 years. The industry stays fairly consistent, but the players change…..and some change the face of the industry. What I mean by that is that younger ladies come in and try to make changes more to their liking – for instance, in financial domination (which wasn’t even a fetish 10 years ago). The younger dommes that are new to the lifestyle have made their mark and have created their own sub culture in the industry. Neither good or bad, but is has happened and will continue to happen.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Well, my very first Professional Domme session was certainly my most memorable moment to date. I had all of these dominant tendencies inside of me, but was a bit unsure as to how they would translate into a bonafide real time session with a client.

I was a bundle of nerves before the session, but once he arrived, it melted away immediately as my natural instincts took over. It almost felt like an out of body experience as I segued from one phase into the next.

He was a regular sub of mine for over 5 years and the beginning of a lifelong journey for me that has no indication of ending at this point.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

Hmmmm. I’m a fairly open book and don’t hide my profession from others. Perhaps it would be a surprise to people that I grew up in a very religious, strict Southern Baptist home as a preacher’s daughter. Everything inside of me was so suppressed as a child that it just had to burst forth once I gained my independence.

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I don’t know that there’s anything I wish I knew or would do differently.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

Banish fakes and timewasters. I’ll bet this is everyone’s answer!

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Chastity and Sissification are my favorites.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Only those that I don’t do – LOL! I have several hard limits and those (obviously) are my least favorite. So I don’t do them.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Traveling. I love to visit places and cross them off of my bucket list (which is quite sizable).

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Of course it does! I wouldn’t be doing this if it didn’t satisfy MY cravings as well. Control and power is an aphrodisiac to me.

What are some of your turn offs?

Bad hygiene, rude or take people.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

One that is honest with him/herself and with me. A strong trust has to be built between the two of us and that starts with breaking down barriers and having open communication about what they are looking to get out of sessions.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Pay attention and don’t make me repeat myself.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?.

Like I said — having complete control over someone is a powerful aphrodisiac and I crave that feeling.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I do video sessions (with permission) and use clips both to sell and to use for marketing purposes. I’m not a cam girl though and don’t “perform” on cam.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

To fellow Dommes – Ladies, don’t let a single day pass without feeling like the bomb ass, powerful Goddess that you are.

To subs — On your knees!

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