Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I’ve always been a pervert. I began training to become a Dominatrix at the tender age of 18 where I was personally taken on and educated by an elite dominatrix. I suppose you could say that power play has always been a part of Me.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

5+ years as a professional, and If I’ve noticed anything it’s that finding a good submissive, it’s harder and harder. No one seems to fully understand what a true power exchange is anymore.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

I’ve always loved the parties! Fetish events are sometimes where my inner demon child comes out to play, one of the most wild nights I had was where I was carried around the dungeon by 5 slaves, and worshipped the entire night!

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I have a weird fetish for Hello Kitty, I love it when My slaves dress up in HK boxers, or wear cute cat ears. I don’t know why, but it makes Me so excited!!

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I wish I knew that 1/2 of the people I dealt with would be time wasters. Having to sift through that to find the diamond in the rough kind of slave is so much work.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

it’s taboo quality.. although being taboo is part of the fun, I would really appreciate it being more socially accepted, and understood. It floors Me how many places consider it abuse and have outlawed BDSM.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Too many to count ;) However most of My fetishes revolve around worship and service. Most of what I do has some sort of nod back to that.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

I have nothing against it, but things like ABDL, and scat, and hook suspension don’t quite do it for Me. I’m a germaphobe, and too much blood/ feces in the room is a turn off.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

As previously mentioned I love to read, as of late I’ve started to dive into research on the many styles of Kinbaku.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

100% YES. I love being a dominant and sensual woman, and I love being appreciated for what I am.

What are some of your turn offs?

Demanding slaves, and disrespect. If a person can approach another with dignity and understanding, our interactions are often times 100% better.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

I love slaves who are seriously into service. My best slave respected Me so much that he was afraid to look Me in the eye, it was cute.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Who doesn’t like gifts? I’m flattered every time someone brings peonies or orchids when they come to see Me.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

That I really get to live My life on a pedestal. I have a ball every day, and am constantly taken care of by My stable of slaves.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I’ve done all three. As of late I prefer more private play such as cam or in person sessions. I don’t enjoy performing like in clips, My beauty is to be savored not consumed, for that reason I’m selective with whom/ how I spend My time.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

To all the sub/ slaves out there, the perfect Dominant is out there looking for you. If you approach Her with respect for Her time, and transparency about yourself, She’ll be so much more open to letting you in.

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