HappyforSlappy

HappyforSlappy

 

HappyforSlappy is a switch that is currently exploring the world of FemDom and his place in it.

 
DommeSource:
How did you discover the world of Female Domination / submission and what attracted you to it?
 
HappyforSlappy:
I was 14 and my sister friends use to tease me, I really enjoyed it. They would make me do task’s for them and I loved the idea of women having power over me!
 

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DommeSource:
How long have you been a submissive? Are you a submissive in “real life” as well or do you switch?
 
HappyforSlappy:
I am a switch and have been for about 15 years. If I am going to sub or Dom it depends on the woman I am with. However, usually I prefer to sub to women.
 
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DommeSource:
Are you a slave to any Domme? If so, explain why you serve Her.
 
HappyforSlappy:
No. I service sub to one woman because I get a great pleasure from seeing her happy. I have submissive scenes with a few other because I find it very pleasurable and I feel they deserve my submission. I wont sub to just any woman, I need a connection on a mental and physical level.
 
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DommeSource:
What are your most memorable moments, as a submissive?
 
HappyforSlappy:
Lately it has been when I get to service sub, I get an immense pleasure from it. My first time I remember submitting is when I was 14 and this girl was 16. She caught me sniffing her panties and made me jerk off while wearing them on my head.
 
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DommeSource:
What is one thing you wish you knew about FemDom/submission before you started?
 
HappyforSlappy:
How to communicate better with the Domme. I wish i knew to talk less about my needs and more about theirs. Then we can find where i can fit in to service them properly.
 
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DommeSource:
Are there aspects of the FemDom industry you wish you could change? If so, what are they?
 
HappyforSlappy:
I wish subs would talk less and listen more, research and even take classes on how to do this properly. Every time a sub is disrespectful it makes it harder on all of us. I wish Dommes would do the same. To me, i think this whole industry can be improved with communication and honesty.
 
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DommeSource:
What are your favorite fetishes and why?
 
HappyforSlappy:
Physically my favorite fetish is providing service such as cleaning a home or chauffeuring. Mentally my favorite fetish is being in chastity. I love giving up such power over myself to a trusted partner.
 
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DommeSource:
What are your least favorite fetishes and why?
 
HappyforSlappy:
I do not like heavy pain, it gives me no pleasure and tend to put me in a bad mental space.
 
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DommeSource:
In “real life”, do you consider yourself successful? In other words, were you born a sub or are you a sub by choice?
 
HappyforSlappy:
Yes, i consider myself successful. I have a long way to go but I think I am in a great space right now. I consider myself a switch, I enjoy both aspects equally. To me its about the woman I am with that will decide if I am going to Dom or sub.
 
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DommeSource:
Describe your ideal relationship with a FemDomme.
 
HappyforSlappy:
Open and honest. We do something that works for both of us. For me, these relationships can only last if we are both having our physical, mental, and emotional needs met. I would love a TPE (Total Power Exchange) relationship with a trusted Domme. One that has me in chastity to her, gives her the opportunities and control she needs to make it work for us both.
 
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DommeSource:
What is your favorite aspect of being a sub?
 
HappyforSlappy:
Servicing a Domme and taking care of her needs.
 
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DommeSource:
What do you look for when looking for a Domme? Are there any special characteristics that you look for?
 
HappyforSlappy:
Yes. Mentally: personality, intelligence, and maturity. Physically: Powerful voice, great breasts, and commanding body language.
 
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DommeSource:
Is there anything that a Domme does or could do that would turn you completely away? Or, if you have served a Domme before and left, why did you leave?
 
HappyforSlappy:
Yes, selfishness. If we are going to be in a relationship its important that both our needs are being met.
 
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DommeSource:
Do you partake in online sessions, clips, or in person sessions? Which are your favorite and least favorite and why?
 
HappyforSlappy:
Sometimes. I have done online JOI sessions with many Domme but lately not so much. In person I have a few play partners who allow me to sub to them and I give up my control to them. There are only 2 people who I have ever bought a clip from, both are Brilliant, beautiful, and fantastic women!
 
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DommeSource:
Is there anything you would like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?
 
HappyforSlappy:
Yes. The BDSM lifestyle is a great way for people to really open up to each other and improve their lives. However, this only works if we communicate, are honest, and put in the work to make it improve our lives. We are all trying for the same thing, we want to be happy and have our needs met. This is beautiful but we have to put the work in, we have to be in it for all of us, not just ourselves! DommeSource is a great place to begin the journey, use it and allow it to help you!

 

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