Loserbie

Loserbie

 

Loserbie is a sub of Mine that is currently exploring the world of FemDom and his place in it.

 
DommeSource:
How did you discover the world of female domination/submission and what attracted you to it?
 
Loserbie:
That’s a hard question to answer for me. I could say that I found it within myself as a developing teenager. I’ve fantasized about a beautiful woman dominating me many times as a way of acting out my frustrations. As for the actual femdom world, I’m sure I’ve seen or read about it on the Internet. I remember how I would search the web for expressions of these fantasies but I would never find much. The internet back in the early 2000s already had a lot of content displaying men dominating women, but not much of women doing it to men. The hardest thing to find at that time was ballbusting. There is just something arousing about the idea of a woman dominating a man sexually by using his most precious parts.

 

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How long have you been a submissive? Are you a submissive in “real life” as well or do you switch?
 
Loserbie:
I’ve only began to actually participate in the FemDom world since November 2016. This has been exclusively online so far. I enjoy the concept of being sexually submissive to a woman. I do enjoy serving women to please them in any way I can. There is a rewarding strength that is gained through submission. It completely depends on the one you submit to. You have to want to submit and believe it’s worth the sacrifice. However, there is a dominant side that lies dormant in me. So, if I had the opportunity, I would give dominance a try. Though, it would be enjoyable, but not in a sexual way for me.
 
As for my real life, I think I was born as a submissive male by default. I’ve always been on the shy side and lacked confidence as a kid. I was the kind, innocent type of child that always followed the rules. In school, I just wanted to build real friendships and not superficial ones. I never started fights and was just too nice for my own good. Unfortunately, children, especially boys, can be very cruel and mean. I was always teased and bullied by others for not being as aggressive, nasty, and strong like them. I never understood it at the time, but now I realize it’s normal for boys to challenge each other in a rough play fashion. However, I was just never that type. I was extremely sensitive emotionally. I lacked self-esteem and just felt like an outcast.

 

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DommeSource:
Are you a slave to any Domme? If so, explain why you serve Her.
 
Loserbie:
Yes, I am proud to serve Princess Mika. She is the most professional, honest, and well-meaning Domme you’ll ever meet. She is very beautiful but she is so incredibly intelligent. Mika really cares about her subs. She really earned my respect and trust. I don’t just give that to anyone. I’m really speaking from the heart when I say that I am so grateful that I choose her to begin my journey in the FemDom world.

 

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DommeSource:
What are your most memorable moments, as a submissive?
 
Loserbie:
My most memorable moments serving Princess Mika is literally every session or day that I have gotten to interact with her. She is so good at what she does. She is never pretending to be something that she is not. She’ll always surprise you and impress you. It just gets better as time goes on.

 

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DommeSource:
What is one thing you wish you knew about femdom / submission before you started?
 
Loserbie:
I wish I knew how friendly and incredible the Dommes can be in this community. Of course, that only happens if you treat them with a lot of respect and honor. This comes natural to me, but I see a lot of customers disrespecting them. I honestly didn’t expect the Dommes to be as passionate and honest in their work. I thought that they might be uncaring, not trustworthy, and just money-hungry. This is completely untrue. A real professional Domme will always be sure to make you feel comfortable in this relationship. If you respect her; she will respect you. There is the game and then there is real life. Any Domme that has made this her life’s work will ensure real life will remain safe and consensual.

 

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DommeSource:
Are there aspects of the femdom industry you wish you could change? If so, what are they?
 
Loserbie:
I don’t know what really goes on in the FemDom industry as a whole to comment. However, I know people have no clue or understanding what most forms of BDSM is. They have a false image of evil things that removes any humanity from the Doms/Dommes and subs. In general, sex work receives a lot of criticism, personal threats, and disrespect. I really wish this attitude would change for the better to benefit both the performers and their fans.

 

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DommeSource:
What are your favorite fetishes and why?
 
Loserbie:
I love the concept of women dominating men sexually especially when women take full control of a man’s penis and testicles. So, some arousing fetishes are mild cock & ball torture, ballbusting (fantasy), Jerk Off Instruction, Goddess worship, and some others. Otherwise, I would say that I’m actually pretty vanilla most of the time. I need to be in the mood for FemDom.
 
As for being straight vanilla, I enjoy loving passionate sex and erotic expressions with women. I dislike the rough and violent sex acts that have become common in pornography.

 

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DommeSource:
What are your least favorite fetishes and why?
 
Loserbie:
Anything extreme and disgusting such as scat, urethra sounding, needles, etc. I’m not interested in strap-ons and anal stuff either.

 

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DommeSource:
In “real life”, do you consider yourself successful? In other words, were you born a sub or are you a sub by choice?
 
Loserbie:
I was totally born as a sub. I often work best when serving others in meaningful, thoughtful ways. I’m a good listener, advisor, and teacher for friends and family. I can be too compassionate for my own good. As I mention at the top of this interview that I have always struggled against others to find my place in this world. A submissive life can be rewarding if it’s in the service of those who deserve your time, energy, and devotion. Ideally, your life should have a balance between dominance and submission.

 

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DommeSource:
Describe your ideal relationship with a Femdomme.
 
Loserbie:
My ideal relationship with a FemDomme is one built on trust, honesty, good communication, consideration, and friendship. It’s important to me that she is being herself and not something fake. Specifically, I’m not interested in the concept of role-playing or a fictional persona. Instead, I want a genuine relationship with whoever I interact with. My true intentions are always about connecting with people on a real level.
 
My fantasy is sexual submission of my body and mind for her enjoyment and pleasure. Ownership of my sexual nature, especially my cock and balls, through control and dominance to whatever way she wants. However, I want that submission to be respected with genuine care for my well being and for my limits. I want her to push me to her satisfaction and happiness. Though, at the same time I want her to genuinely be interested in doing what she asks of me. I want to sacrifice myself for her actual enjoyment, not mine. Her happiness is my happiness. I want us to both enjoy in shared experience. I would be much happier to only submit to what she feels like doing in that moment because it makes her happy. I don’t want to do anything based what she thinks I expect. Instead, I want her to do it because she genuinely wants to. Open and honest communication will always be the most important priority.

 

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DommeSource:
What is your favorite aspect of being a sub?
 
Loserbie:
The praise and appreciation that I receive from my Domme, Princess Mika. It is very powerful to have her praise and receive rewards for good behavior. People are often taken for granted and/or meaningless praise is given in real life. This is not the case with the Princess. She is able to assign a high value on the love she gives her subs by making them earn it through good behavior. This reward system is part of what makes her such a successful Domme.

 

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DommeSource:
What do you look for when looking for a Domme? Are there any special characteristics that you look for?
 
Loserbie:
I definitely do. I’m always looking at their personality and who they really are. Dommes need to be passionate, confident, and genuine. They should be able to enjoy this profession. It must come natural to them to be a FemDomme. They should also genuinely care about their subs as well. I have no interest in people who are going to be fake and are only in it for the money and don’t care less.
 
As for physical appearance, I agree with DrWangFei. They should have a natural healthy look about them. No unnecessary plastic surgery either.

 

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DommeSource:
Is there anything that a Domme does or could do that would turn you completely away? Or, if you have served a Domme before and left, why did you leave?
 
Loserbie:
A Domme can turn me away completely by breaking my trust and confidence. Once broken, it’s hard to regain. Also, anyone that don’t respect my humanity.

 

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DommeSource:
Do you partake in online sessions, clips, or in person sessions? Which are your favorite and least favorite and why?
 
Loserbie:
I do partake in these activities with Princess Mika. I’ve done online sessions through Skype and subscribed to her membership page. I also send tributes and buy items from her Amazon wishlist. I have bought some clips as well. Though the membership page is the best value for your money. However, the real experience is having Live sessions. It is important to remember that you want to support your favorite Dommes financially in many different ways. However, this will completely depend on your relationship with her on what methods. Please never waste their time without paying for it in some matter.

 

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DommeSource:
Is there anything you would like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?
 
Loserbie:
I would tell both Dommes and Subs to remember that both sides are real people just like yourself and must be respected and valued. Do not idealize or fantasize too much. We are in this world for a reason. Don’t be afraid to communicate your fears and needs. Be honest to each other. You are both in a unique situation that enable the other to be your true selves and develop a bond that is difficult to achieve in normal everyday life. Don’t ruin it.

 

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