Sub4Lyfe

 

Sub4Lyfe is an experienced sub for over 10 years!

 
DommeSource:
How did you discover the world of Female Domination / submission and what attracted you to it?
 
Sub4Lyfe:
I honestly don’t remember how I discovered it. But I do remember my first domme and exploring with her. It was all so new then. It was before the whole, ‘spoiled bratty girl’ thing began online. I didn’t know much about fetishes at the time and definitely wasn’t into the same things then that I’m into now. It has grown so much for me, changed over time. I’ve evolved as a sub. As far as what attracted me I’d have to say it was the rush, which is the same thing that keeps me coming back, even today.
 

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DommeSource:
How long have you been a submissive? Are you a submissive in “real life” as well or do you switch?
 
Sub4Lyfe:
I’ve been a submissive for over ten years now. Probably longer. I am a submissive in real life. I believe it’s the only way to be a true submissive. Online stuff is fun, but it’s more about getting off. Experiencing it in real life is another level, a deeper level. It is true submission. And yes, I switch, although I’m much more of a sub, it is fun being on top every once in awhile but that’s not my true nature.
 
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DommeSource:
Are you a slave to any Domme? If so, explain why you serve Her.
 
Sub4Lyfe:
I’m not at the moment but have been in the past. I served her because there was a real connection. And not just with the domme/sub aspect, we also had a mutual respect and relationship outside of that. You can truly feel comfortable and become the sub you want to be when you meet a domme who respects you for your submission. She realizes that it is truly a gift.
 
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DommeSource:
What are your most memorable moments, as a submissive?
 
Sub4Lyfe:
I think most of my memorable moments are definitely in real time sessions or relationships. Again here where there is a true bond that is forming. And I’d have to say some of my most memorable moments are having my limits pushed and discovering something new that turned me on that I never expected.
 
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DommeSource:
What is one thing you wish you knew about FemDom/submission before you started?
 
Sub4Lyfe:
How addicting it can be and how it can completely change you. I’ll never be the same and I’ll never enjoy normal vanilla sex again.
 
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DommeSource:
Are there aspects of the FemDom industry you wish you could change? If so, what are they?
 
Sub4Lyfe:
Hmmm I think the only thing I’d change is that there should be some kind of certification for dommes, lol. So many girls are running around calling themselves dommes, when in fact they have no idea how to be a domme and it’s merely a way for them to make money. I wouldn’t call them fakes, just clueless. And it’s easy for a true sub to spot.
 
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DommeSource:
What are your favorite fetishes and why?
 
Sub4Lyfe:
I’d say my favorite fetishes are financial domination, edging and brainwashing, all combined, lol. This sends me into a deep state of sub space which is what I live for.
 
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DommeSource:
What are your least favorite fetishes and why?
 
Sub4Lyfe:
I’d have to say sissy and forced bi stuff. It’s just not my thing. Although I respect everyone’s fetishes.
 
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DommeSource:
In “real life”, do you consider yourself successful? In other words, were you born a sub or are you a sub by choice?
 
Sub4Lyfe:
I’m not sure whether I was born a sub or am a sub by choice. I guess for all subs we must have been born with some qualities that made us more submissive, and then we explore and make the choice to continue.
 
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DommeSource:
Describe your ideal relationship with a FemDomme.
 
Sub4Lyfe:
My ideal relationship with a femdomme would have three main components which would make it successful. First she would need to be intuitive. Some dommes just get it, and me, without having to sit down and explain everything. Someone who just gets me. Secondly, she would know and respect my limits. And lastly and most importantly, someone who respected my submission as a gift, and someone who I could love me and interact with me on many levels when we’re not in the bedroom.
 
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DommeSource:
What is your favorite aspect of being a sub?
 
Sub4Lyfe:
For me being a sub is all about sub space. It’s a deep, hypnotic, blissful altered state of consciousness that I love to float in.
 
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DommeSource:
What do you look for when looking for a Domme? Are there any special characteristics that you look for?
 
Sub4Lyfe:
Hmm I think this is answered in question ten 🙂
 
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DommeSource:
Is there anything that a Domme does or could do that would turn you completely away? Or, if you have served a Domme before and left, why did you leave?
 
Sub4Lyfe:
I’d turn away from a domme if she didn’t respect me or my limits. Or if I could tell she just didn’t get ’it’.
 
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DommeSource:
Do you partake in online sessions, clips, or in person sessions? Which are your favorite and least favorite and why?
 
Sub4Lyfe:
Yes, yes and yes, lol. But online sessions and clips much less these days. It started out mostly online but once I switched to in person, the online stuff just isn’t as impactful. As I mentioned above, online sessions and clips are about getting off. In person sessions are about servitude.
 
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DommeSource:
Is there anything you would like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?
 
Sub4Lyfe:
Hmmmm yes. I’m looking for a real domme/sub relationship. Not online, but real, in person. A relationship with a domme. I’ve had it before and it’s what I want. I don’t want a normal relationship. I want to love someone I also serve, and have her love me, even though she does the most degrading things to me. I’m much more than a sub, you might be surprised by who you meet. 😉 If you’re looking for this too, lemme know 😉
 
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