Domme Resources

It makes sense that we, as Dommes, want to make the most money possible. This requires a safe, secure way in which to receive payment.

Remember that phrase: Nothing in life is free! Well, that applies here, too. I know many of us, especially newer Dommes want to keep 100% of their earnings all the time. Unfortunately, it just doesn’t work like that most of the time.

The fact is that all payment processors take out a fee. Even if you were to take the time to create your own website with a payment processor to accept all your own payments, normally the payment processor will take at least 10% of every transaction. This is why it’s realistic to hope for 65%-80% of the sale from other sites.

The best Payment Methods for Dommes are:

• FemDom Friendly Clip Sites
• FemDom Friendly Cam Sites
• Your Personal Membership Site

All of these methods provide safe, secure ways to obtain payment without breaking any terms of service. Most of these methods have a “Tribute” or “Tip” button/page where your subs can send you cash. Unless otherwise stated, you are protected from charge backs in most cases as well.

I know this may not be what everyone wants to hear because all of these safe ways to get paid take a percentage of your earnings. However, it is better to be safe than to risk your personal information being outed and/or risk not receiving the payment at all because you violated a site’s terms of service.

Here are a few popular payment methods to stay away from:

This one is huge, especially for newer Dommes. NEVER, ever ever ever EVER accept PayPal. PayPal is NOT adult friendly and once they find out you accepted payment for an adult service (such as FemDom content and/or shows and/or gifts) they will not only cancel your account but keep all the money you made. Not only that but your personal information can also be seen by the person sending you money. NEVER USE PAYPAL! Do not accept PayPal for any payments for anything. No exceptions.

I myself use Amazon for gifts only. Amazon, unfortunately, is another company that is openly anti-sex worker. However, it can be successfully used to obtain gifts. Be very careful about using this to accept payment for shows and/or content. Read more about Amazon Safety for Dommes here.

Google Wallet is another anti-sex worker company. It is best to not accept payment on here for anything Domme related, even gifts.