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In every FemDomme’s life, there comes a time where subs must be punished for bad behavior. Of course, Dommes will want the most effective way to do this.

Here is what helped me the most, when navigating this issue:

First and foremost, sometimes, the sub just isn’t worth the time and energy it takes to actually punish him. It is for this reason that I believe it’s best to only punish slaves. The last thing you want to do is take and create more stress for yourself than is needed.

This one seems obvious but it needs to be said. You need to make sure that the sub does not enjoy his punishment. After all, it is a punishment. There are ​many subs that enjoy being ​verbally abused and/or humiliated, enjoy being ignored, enjoy being ripped off, etc. So, it is imperative you’re not actually rewarding the sub when he deserves to be punished. Here again, it is for this reason I suggest to only punish your slaves. Ideally, you would know your slave enough to know which would be a punishment and which would be more like an award.

While the sub is being punished, it’s important to follow through. Many subs will whine, complain, spam apologizes, etc – anything to shorten the length of the punishment. Do not give into this and always follow through with what you said you were going to do with whatever the punishment is. The last thing you want to do is let the sub know that, with enough persistence, he can get out of some or all of his punishment.