Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I started online as a non-nude ‘cam model’ about 4 years ago, and from there I discovered FemDom and FinDom. When I first started camming, I first truly began to discover My own sexuality; My own kinks and fetishes, what I like and what I don’t. I was instantly attracted to FemDom because it put Me in control. The idea of making an otherwise “normal” man into a whimpering little bitch for Me…. It came naturally.      

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I’ve been a Domme for a little over three years now. While I consider Myself a part of a much larger online community as well as an industry, I wouldn’t note any significant differences from when I first started, other than My own personal growth, but that’s probably because I’ve kept pretty focused on Myself.      

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Receiving large sums of cash. Big numbers and big gifts are most memorable for Me. Also, dishing out humiliating tasks. Watching the lengths that men will go to please Me…. With the right execution, certainly can be quite memorable.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

Well… I’m an only child, so I’ve naturally been spoiled My entire life. Putting Myself first, and getting what I want have always been priority over everything else.      

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

The only thing I really wish I knew before I started being a Domme, is how much I would enjoy it and how natural it is! I’ve learned a lot in the time since I first began as a Domme, because I really came in knowing very little about BDSM, D/s dynamics and obscure kinks. & while I’ve learned a lot since I first began, there will always be more to know! I enjoy that process and I wouldn’t want to change it.      

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

I would like the FemDom industry to be ran solely by Women. I don’t think men should be profiting off of the Women who make the Femdom industry what it is.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Financial domination. Worship; Body, mind, spirit. Tease & Denial. Orgasm control. Humiliation. Mind fucking.      

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

I’m not into toilet play, at all. Also blood/medical play.      

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Photography has been a passion of Mine for many years. I took photo in high school and a dark room + digital class at college level which I would like to continue one day; Stylized portraits / fashion photography. Cinematography, cooking, fashion, gardening, League of Legends.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Yes! There is little comparable to having an eagerly obedient sub wrapped tightly around My pretty little middle finger, awaiting My every perfect command. Power and control are the ultimate turn-ons.      

What are some of your turn offs?

Needy/whiny men. Non-paying men. The men in My life must pay for the privilege of being apart of it, whatever their role may be.      

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

My ideal sub would be loyal, first of all. & I would actually enjoy a sub that provides Me with somewhat of a challenge… As much as I love making men into stupid, mindless hand humping losers, I also like to be engaged. If you can resist from forfeiting instantly and instead go deeper into My mind games… Yum. Also My ideal sub would be wealthy! haha.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Put My pleasure first… My pleasure should be paramount and if you can actually prove to Me that My pleasure is more important than your own, I’d be impressed since most men are only worried about their own dick. Gifts and/or tribute sent selflessly and without having to be told to do so, that pleases Me. Also, the type of gift; Like if a sub actually puts thought into a gift, and makes it personalized for Me, I’m quite pleased.      

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Giving zero fucks.      

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I really enjoy creating clips, as I mentioned before, My “hobbies” include photography and cinematography so creating clips really encompasses My passions, I just wish I could be behind the camera shooting and in front of the camera at the same time! As for cam, I enjoy teasing and taunting on cam or having a session but cam time is on My time and when I’m in the mood or not at all. I do not meet up in person – This would require certain circumstances to be met prior, for Me to even consider it.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Cheers to 2017 being the kinkiest and most prosperous year yet!

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