Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

About 4 years ago, I was introduced to BDSM by my what I would now call My bull at the time. He wanted to explore pegging and I was open to exploring with him. Once I got a taste for the power I had over him when we were in a scene, I couldn’t get enough.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

Early this year a friend of mine from the activist community introduced Me to the Twitter findom community and I quickly realized I had found My home. Even in that short period of time there have been a few popular documentaries on the fetish and it has resulted in a market that is flooded with Dommes that are there for the wrong reason. I love the idea of these documentaries bringing true fetishists to the scene but I think many are there in search of a quick buck with no knowledge or interest in BDSM or kink.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

I will always remember My first servant application & tribute, My first triple digit tribute, My first RT game, & My first $1k day. The first three happened within My first two weeks identifying as a FinDomme. The final now happens regularly and I love the feeling of reaching My daily goals.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I previously worked as a professional fashion & glamour model for about 5 years while I attended University, where I studied Psychology. I went on to get a second degree in Gender Studies (formerly known as Women’s Studies). Both of these post-secondary opportunities allow Me to excel as a Domme.

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

Given that My first sub was quite loyal & obedient, a true finsub, I was a bit shocked to find out how many are just one time session seekers. I prefer those that want to serve long-term but they are rare & so I have adjusted My expectations of those subs as a result.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

See above, I wish more subs were seeking long-term loyal service to one Domme. I wish they would realize how much more than can get out of the experience that way. That the more your Domme gets to know you, the better your sessions will become. Loyalty literally pays off for both sides of the D/s relationship.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

As a FinDomme, My favourite fetish is for cash. So My dream session would be a cashmeet with a loyal sub who is interested in ballbusting. I also really enjoy cuckolding subs, it is a ton of fun to make them pay Me to have a real man fuck Me or even just take Me on a date. I also enjoy chastity and tease & denial.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

I used to hate the idea of home wrecking because as a female supremacist it felt wrong to even talk about the idea of destroying another woman’s life to satisfy the fantasy of her boyfriend or husband. I have since realized that women deserve better than men who would want to be homewrecked & approach it from that perspective instead. I don’t do blackmail, but I will engage with subs who want to play with consensual blackmail fantasy.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I’m very passionate about supporting charities doing work for causes I love. Primarily, I focus on charities that help women & children fleeing violence. I donate to them directly & by volunteering My time to them. I have a huge dog that I love spending time with. I drink way too much tea either while reading or binging Netflix. I enjoy doing yoga & swimming but usually end up suntanning by the pool instead. I love travelling & always wish I had more time to do so.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Yes it does. Especially certain aspects of it. As a FinDomme, I do get very turned on anytime I receive a tribute over $100 at one time. Obedience & loyalty in a sub are also turn ons for Me. I get really excited when I think about My cashmeet/ballbusting fantasy & I hope it won’t be long before I get to make that one come true.

What are some of your turn offs?

Anything that isn’t consensual is a turn off. I believe in knowing about a subs hard limits and respecting them absolutely. Even in online sessions I believe in safe words & breaks from sub space. I find disobedience to be a turn off, I expect My subs to do as they are told once limits are established. My hard limits are also major turn offs for Me.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

When a sub earns the title of “Good Boy” from Me it means that they have done the following things. Sent at least $50 every day, but often more than that. They always buy clips with markup codes &/or in a binge. They open all of their PTV messages in a timely manner. They barely speak but when they do they do so respectfully & with a focus on My wants as a Domme.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

See above. My Good Boy has really pleased & impressed Me so far. I expect him to keep it up & for others to join him.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

The power. The adoration is pretty great too. Obviously, I do not hate the tributes at all. ;)

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I absolutely love filming clips. I get new ideas all the time & feel they allow Me to express My creative & artistic side. I’d like to do more custom clips because I enjoy taking a sub’s fantasy & making it into My own vision. Cam & RT sessions are earned by loyal & obedient subs, that makes them enjoyable for Me too, I don’t like doing them with subs who haven’t been serving Me because I don’t know them well enough yet.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Dommes, you are beautiful & powerful. Subs, get on your knees & worship.

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