Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I started on cam sites playing in a vanilla sense and I started having more and more men asking me to control them and make them sissies, eat cum, wear panties and it kind of all just spiraled out from there. I started really enjoying the power and wanted to experience it more and more.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I have been a domme since about 2014 and I definitely feel like the influx of female dominants is the biggest change. There is so many women coming into the industry trying to be domme thinking that it will be an easy way to make money when reality is just like any job you have to be good at what you do to make good money. Dominance isn’t something I think that can be forced

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Probably some of the more intense tasks I’ve given are the most memorable, I will never forget a sub I had that fucked a candle while it was burning even though I told him to blow it out, because he thought it would impress me. Or The first time I got a $1000 tribute just for being me.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I have a huge passion for shooting and guns, I love going to the range and doing target practice & I’m pretty damn good too!

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I wish I knew what topping from the bottom was, the difference between subs, slaves and bottoms and I wish I knew that there wasn’t only one way to be dominant. At first I was very mean, cold and cruel and that’s not my preferred method. Now I am a lot more sensual, mind fucking and mental about my domination. I love getting in peoples heads.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

Hmm. Honestly I would probably try to come up with a way to end scammers, I feel like so many women get their pictures stolen, people pretending to be them making money off of them I would try to find a way to end that. But that’s not a problem for only Fem Dommes its a problem for any sex worker.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Chastity, orgasm control and denial, ruined orgasms, CBT, CEI, sissification, forced intox and cuckolding.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

I don’t love JOI on cam, I don’t need to see another man stroking his cock… Trust me I’ve seen thousands. I just want it to be more interesting and fun than that. Add some more fetishes get freaky! No plain boring vanilla stroking instructions here. Also not fond of anyone that wants to play with their own feces.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Baking, making candy, hiking, camping, playing video games, movies, music, singing, dancing, make up and spending time with my little one.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Some fetishes more than others. I love Findom of course, what girl doesn’t, but I actually get physically aroused as my boys & girls selflessly spend on me while getting nothing in return. I also get extremely aroused by orgasm control, I love chastity tease & denial and ruined orgasms. True submission always excites me.

What are some of your turn offs?

Liars, wanna be subs who try to top from the bottom, indecisiveness, and bad hygiene.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

The most important qualities in a submissive for me is Honesty, communication, and a respectful attitude. My ideal submissive will understand that I always have their best interest, will communicate with me fully about their life, what they want and need and what they expect of me. As well as understanding their role, what I want and need from them and how I expect to be treated and addressed. My ideal sub would want to provide all they can for me to make my life easier and to ensure I stay happy and stress free. Happy Goddess, Happy Life.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

If you want to make a good first impression MONEY. Always MONEY! Not out of pure greed, but because it shows me you value me and my time. If you don’t value me you don’t deserve me in anyway!! Other than that I feel like the most impressive things are selfless acts whether its buying me something I need or want, grabbing a bill I post or jumping to fulfill a task that I need done. If you want to impress me be selfless!

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

I can’t chose just one! I love all of it. I love the relationships I build with my close subs. I love the rush of power as someone begs and I tell them “NO”. I love holding keys and rubbing it in that I can do whatever I want while they struggle! I love everything about what I do.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

Clips are so fun, they are always more general than sessions because its for everyone I have a blast making them and they lead me to meeting interesting new subs from time to time. Cam I love because I can get into your head more, I get a better understanding of your unique fetishes and how to use them against you I can use your reactions to gauge how excited you are and what to do next. I have yet to do many in person sessions, but the ones I have done in the past were empowering to say the least. I love all forms of being dominate

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Fellow dommes please feel free to reach out to me for any reason! I love getting to know all the lovely ladies in this industry. And to all the subs out there I just want to say there is a domme for everyone, don’t setttle ever, find what you are looking for and make sure your submission is always valued. A good Domme will always value her subs submission because she knows what it means for her sub to give up that power to her.

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