Domme Spotlight Interview
Abbey Mars
Domme Source
How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?
Abbey Mars
I’ve been involved in my local kink community for years, as I attended more parties and had more BDSM experiences I realized that I am a switch. I was camming on a few popular sites and made the switch to making clips with Latex Barbie and never looked back. I prefer FemDom clips over camming any day but I truly thrive in The FemDom niche.
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How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?
Abbey Mars
I’ve only been officially an online Domme for about a year so I haven’t noticed many changes yet. I do think it’s more accepted as a career than it was years ago.
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What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?
Abbey Mars
My most memorable would have to be a slave purchasing me all my filming equipment. Camcorder, tripod, lights along with shoes and new lingerie. It’s amazing to have a slave so committed to your success that they fully outfit you with everything you need to make your job easier and your content better.
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Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.
Abbey Mars
I am a huge nerd, I attend local Comic Conventions on a regular basis, in costume. I’m big into videos games, comics, graphic novels and Star Wars. Those who are close to me know this but not everyone!
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What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?
Abbey Mars
The amount of online resources, one year in and I’m only just now realizing there are SO many different sites I can be a part of or sell my content on! Research research research!
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If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?
Abbey Mars
That’s a hard one, but Id have to say the amount of woman on woman hate in the FemDom community is so disheartening. We should all be helping each other and lifting each other up!
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What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?
Abbey Mars
I LOVE sissy slaves and making them dress up for me and send me photos! I absolutely love orgasm denial and/or edging and making them ache for me, knowing I have that much control.
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Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?
Abbey Mars
I’d have to say I’m not into anything diaper related personally. Or anything to do with urine or feces. Not gonna even pretend to be into it.
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Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?
Abbey Mars
I absolutely love making latex outfits, I need to be outdoors on a regular basis and try to go skiing twice a week to stay in shape. And I just HAVE to go dancing every weekend!
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Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?
Abbey Mars
FemDom turns me on when I have obedient slaves who do what I say when I say it. It’s very easy to get a strike in my books, and two strikes your out when it comes to serving me!
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What are some of your turn offs?
Abbey Mars
Time wasters, lurkers, slaves who pretend that they will do whatever I say then argue with me.
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Describe your ideal slave / sub.
Abbey Mars
Funny, intelligent and giving. I need to be able to joke around with my slaves and have real conversations. I truly do want a relationship with them, it’s not just about milking them for all the cash they have. Their mental well being is also very important to me. But, if I tell them to buy something or reimburse something, they must do it immediately and thank me for the privilege.
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What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?
Abbey Mars
I still have not received a 4 digit tribute! That would really get my attention.
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What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?
Abbey Mars
The people I have met online, being Dommes and Slaves. I have built such a supportive online community and I really think I can call some of them true friends.
Domme Source
Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?
Abbey Mars
Performing in clips is really fun, on my own schedule so I can plan out all the aspects from my outfit to what I’m going to say. On cam I’m more relaxed and silly, myself even more so. And I don’t do in person sessions yet, I’ve thought about it. Maybe in the future.
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Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?
Abbey Mars
Dommes if you ever need advice or help I’m happy to answer questions, I haven’t been around long but I’ve been in the BDSM scene locally for years.
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