Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I started webcamming in 2016, and quickly men requested femdom from me. I have always had a deep interest in sadism and the deeply taboo and depraved, additionally I had always held the dominant role in my relationships, so it quickly interested me. I started researching, engaging more, and experimenting with different fetishes until I found a few I thoroughly enjoyed. Eventually, I left all vanilla camming and content creation behind, changed my alias (a couple of times haha – I am previously known as Goddess Erina), and focused entirely on femdom content.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

Pretty soon after I started webcamming in 2016 I had men requesting femdom from me, but it wasn’t until 2018 that I left all other content behind entirely and focused solely on being a domme. I can’t comment much on the differences, to be honest, I really keep to myself. The one thing I did notice over the years was a larger influx of young women coming in on twitter and onlyfans thinking it’s easy money, but those people will always exist regardless.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Aaahhh, there are so many. I used to have one sub who would come on and we would have sessions for hours, engaging in the most depraved role plays I have ever done with anyone. Then we would talk for ages about travel (my true love, I am a full-time digital nomad). I really love it when subs come to me with a very taboo fantasy that they are truly ashamed of and leave feeling a true sense of freedom in being able to have someone to engage in their depraved fantasies within a truly non-judgemental environment.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I completely came out publicly on my private social media as a domme in March, then directly after proceeded to actually shut down my business for the past 6 months. I wanted to focus on my vanilla business (business coaching and travel influencing) and I was highly stressed and undervalued myself way too much as a domme. So I left. But, I love this work just so much, I couldn’t keep away and so I decided just this month to come back to it under the name Emily B, which is actually a play on my legal name.

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

You don’t need a perfect body, you don’t need an extensive wardrobe of clothing and costumes or some elaborate set up to do well and have genuine relationships with subs who truly value you. A true passion for being a domme and an open willingness to learn is all you need (well, being naturally a bitch helps too ;)).

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

Less drama.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

As I mentioned, I have a highly sadistic and depraved mind. I thoroughly enjoy delving into the extremely taboo and depraved with my clients. Role-plays are my absolute favourite. Pushing the absolute limits. It’s also no secret I also adore coerced-bi, verbal humiliation, and anything to do with the infliction of pain.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Not really that I can think of, off the top of my head.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Travel! I travel the world full-time with my cat, I am a digital nomad and it is a lifestyle I adore more than anything.
Apart from that, I love k-pop, manga, drawing, and anime. I do truly love video editing and creation.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

It does, I really am very sadistic. Though I am a switch and in my personal life I engage in a mix of taking the dominant and submissive roles.

What are some of your turn offs?

Disobedient subs and cheap subs.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

A sub who highly respects me and my time first and foremost. My time is extremely valuable, I am in the process now of running 2 businesses along with traveling full-time with my cat. So, being respectful of my time is first and foremost.

A sub who shares an interest in the same fetishes as I, that one is also obvious. Obedient and open to exploring and pushing their limits. Apart from that, a sub who is wanting a long-term relationship and wants to support my lifestyle generously are things I look for in a great sub ;)

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Not trying to be cliche, but sending a nice big tribute! But apart from that, buying all the clips I produce regardless of the fetish, that for me would show you really value me and my work.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

The reason why I was originally drawn to camming and why I continued on as a domme is truly my love of the deeply depraved and taboo. It’s always been a thing for me that people naturally open up to me about their sexuality. I always attract people in my real life who even upon barely meeting open up to me about their deepest secrets and shame points surrounding sex. I am extremely open and non-phased by the very extreme and taboo and so naturally I do attract people who enjoy these things. It’s truly a form of therapy. Sexual shame is honestly something I hate seeing and I believe no one needs to carry around that unnecessary shame. I love creating a space where my subs can come and truly let go and step into their true sexual self-expression in a non-judgemental environment.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I love clips first and foremost. It’s very natural for me to ‘perform’ on camera. I truly love it. I just let an idea come to me, and as soon as I get behind the camera the words naturally flow out. On cam is great, but in the past, I had shockingly low standards for subs and clients and so I really grew to hate it. But, when it is a longer session with a sub whom I have a good relationship with, I do enjoy it. In-person is interesting though, so I have never done a lot of in-person domination. In my personal life I have, but nothing super extreme. Almost my entire domme career I was in a monogamous relationship and so it was never something I explored yet. Also moving around constantly makes it slightly more difficult. But now I am no longer in that relationship and I am starting my career as a domme again, in-person sessions are something I am excited to finally engage in.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Thanks Mika for this interview, a pleasure as always.

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