Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I discovered the world of femdom when I started using Streamate, during one of my first shows on there a member came in and asked me if I did “sph” and of course since I had no idea what that was I quickly opened a new tab and searched it, after reading what it was I was quick to respond that I’ve never tried it but I’d love to, I’ve loved it ever since!      

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I have been a domme for about a year and a half, and the biggest difference I’ve noticed is the social media activity of dommes. Something that used to be not as common now clutters up my timeline on Twitter. Some dommes who don’t even do live cam domination participate in it on Twitter. It’s pretty interesting!      

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

My most memorable moment was when I had someone tied up on their floor nude, and I was really laying into them. Spanking, gagging, and begging… then I hear some footsteps outside of their room. Turns out it was their mom! Awkward, but a funny memory. Another one of my favorite memories is the first time I made a sub on cam use a butt plug, their face was priceless.      

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I never knew that I was dominant, I always just thought that in relationships I was a little bossy. Then when I started sex work I was called a bitch a couple times and I figured out why!      

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I wish I knew how many time wasters and “minute men” there were! It’s a bummer when you’ve barely gotten started and the guy leaves. (I’ve made a guy finish from my humiliation in 43 seconds, and he was so embarrassed and scared for his consequence that he left!) I also wish I knew how important it was to utilize the block button on time wasters! I can see through people trying to lie for free humiliation much easier now.      

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

The lack of community spirit. A lot of girls are not friendly towards one another. I think as an empowered group of females we should help each other, and uplift each other. Too many girls worry about the competition.      

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

SPH, CEI, and FinDom.      

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

My least favorite fetish is DD/LG because too many groups of young girls are participating in it with men that are much older than them. There is a difference between role playing as a little and actually being little and too many “Daddies” are taking advantage of that.      

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I’m an avid writer, I participate actively in journalism as well as many writing contests. One of my pieces is being published this year! I spend a lot of time with my dogs, I take them to the dog park twice a day and I am in the process of having them trained to be therapy dogs so I can take them to children’s hospitals in my area.      

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

FemDom does turn me on but it’s the FinDom part of what I do that really gets me going. I’m a frequent offender of getting soaking wet during shopping sprees. Financial stability is a huge turn on.      

What are some of your turn offs?

Guys who call themselves daddy make me drier than the Sahara Desert. I also do not like having my hair pulled, huge turn off.      

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

My ideal slave is devoted to me, loyal to me and the people I love. They send me weekly tithe as well as tribute to me regularly. They know to follow my rules or that they will be disciplined, they know they may not receive pleasure without my consent, and they know that I am the most important living being in their life. Also, they won’t fail to point that out often.      

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Sending large tributes usually impresses me. I was most impressed by a sub who took out a loan for me so I could put a down payment on my car last year.      

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

My favorite aspect of being a femdomme is knowing I don’t have to take shit from anyone. I run my business in my own way and it empowers me. I can work freely on my own time and still have time for myself.      

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I prefer performing on cam, but I also perform in clips! I currently do not perform in person, but plan to make cash point meets available in the near future. I feel confident performing on cam because I know the customer I am with and can gauge their reaction to my abuse and alter it to suit their needs as my sub. In videos, I’m much more vague in my humiliation so that it can suit all buyers. It’s hard to maintain a good line of abuse that way, but unless you order a custom there’s nothing I can do about that! It’s still fun, except for the editing. I hate editing!      

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

I’d like to say to DommeSource that if you are a fellow domme, don’t get offput by having a different style! I always think my style is kind of weird, but there is someone for everyone and this is sub inclusive. To subs… how have you made it this far into my interview without sending me tributes? Make those hands useful!  

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