Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I originally started camming(did for like 2 months) and it just wasn’t quite for me. I’ve always been attracted to Adult Industry work and I am most definitely a kinkster so after a little reading, and exploring I came across Femdom/FinDom. Immediately I was like “this is it”, my finance was all for it too! He loves watching me boss weak men around, he knows I genuinely love it(;  

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I have only been a domme for about 4-5 months now, and I don’t know if it’s just because I am gaining more exposure to the world or if things really have changed; but I feel like there are definitely a lot more Insta-Dommes out there just looking to make a quick buck. To me I feel it has definitely effected business, it makes subs more wary or take it less seriously. It’s an interesting time for a newbie like me, but I’m confident in the quality of my work, between the time and thought I put into it, I know it shows, and I know subs are starting to notice.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Because everything is still so fresh for me right now, I really do enjoy just about every minute of my time with my Domming. There are no really stand out times simply because I haven’t had time to sit and look back and take in anything yet! But everyday is new, exciting, and fun! I build a stronger foundation with my subs, and I enjoy my time with them(;

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

Well I know I mentioned above that I have a fiance, but what isn’t a widely known fact is that we are also parents(: that’s right I’m a MILF too!(; if it wasn’t a fetish of yours already, I can promise it is now!

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I wish I knew how many time wasters there actually were, I was of course braced for rejection and knew it would take time but time wasters just get annoying and do just that, waste your time. Luckily I am in a lovely group #TeamSlayy and we keep each other up dated and watch each others backs, so we are able to ward of a decent amount of those fuckers lol

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

I would change the way some Dommes like to cramp on one another’s style. I see a lot of “True Dommes don’t…” and “Real Dommes are supposed to…”. Like I agree that there is a basic set of guidelines that separates us from those like InstaDommes that are just looking to make a quick buck, but there is no set Rule Book to being a Domme. Just like every person is different, so is that person’s sexual preference. As Domme’s we are considered sex workers, and we cater to those sexual preferences. With that is the artistic freedom to do whatever the fuck it is we want! Some Domme’s like to keep ’em guessing and never show anything but a little cleavage, maybe an ass pic. Others like to get naked and make them pay a hefty price for the privilege to do so. I personally enjoy getting naked because I’m fucking beautiful and I like rubbing it in their faces ^-^ I just know that a lot of subs are turned off by the constant hate that is spread between dommes, and if we embraced one another it would make those pindicks twitch that much more! Haha xD

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

I love FinDom, humiliation, sissification, chastity…Foot fetishes are fun too(:

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Scat and things of that nature are a big no for me, like you do you but keep it away from me please(: haha

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I’m a writer, and an animal lover. I play video games when I have time, & I really want to get into flower gardening too^-^

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Yes it does! I am dominating at heart, and men have always had a respect for me. I am very charismatic and I’ve always been able to get men to do what I want and its so HOT! But FemDom isn’t the only thing, I am definitely more of a sub when it comes to the relationship between me and my fiance. And even then it isn’t a deeply run Dom/Sub relationship{well things differ in the bedroom xD} I’m still his spoiled little brat that gets what I want, he encourages it, and he loves seeing me spoiled by men who worship me ^-^

What are some of your turn offs?

Time wasters/Gross Entitled men who don’t pay me xD

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

One who will drive a thousand miles just to drop 10k at my door, kiss my toes and leave haha

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Send anything that end with 000s :*

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Being top bitch. I love having men know their place(below me, and serving me) and being able to do whatever I want. Its very freeing ^_^

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I have yet to do any in person or camming( I intend on camming when I have a little bit larger platform) but I make clips and I love them! I can’t wait to get more equipment to start making more of a variety!!

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Dommes: Stay pimpin’ ladies (; Subs: get hoein’ sluts, make more money for Goddess ;* 

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