Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I discovered FemDom when I first started watching porn when I was 12 years old. I didn’t know what it was at the time. It became more and more attractive to Me as I got older, and it wasn’t until high school that I actually got into the practice of BDSM with various partners and became more familiar with FemDom thru camming. It attracted Me because it was conceivably different, out of the ordinary, aesthetically beautiful and there was just SO much to it. I rediscovered BDSM and FemDom over the past few years when I actually became friends with other dommes + subs, and then I realized becoming a professional Dominatrix is what I wanted to do. I learn new things about FemDom every single day.      

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I haven’t been a professional Domme very long at all. I have practiced it in part through camming & online modeling over the past few years, but it wasn’t up until this past year that I started doing real-time Dominatrix sessions and became very serious about pursuing FemDom as a career. In general, I’d say that I have been a domme for most of my life. It has always been apart of my lifestyle, whether I realized it or not.      

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

The look in a sub’s eye when they are waiting for Me to tell them how to serve Me next. They look like puppies. So cute.      

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I used to be a cheerleader for 10 years! I think anyone would take one look at Me and be shocked. I guess I’m like Missy from Bring It On.      

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I wish I had known how to better identify and handle time-wasters. Practice makes perfect.      

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

The domme on domme hate! Seriously, why do some feel the need to compete with others? We are all trying to crush the patriarchy. Let’s build each other up and support one another. Without each other, we don’t have anything. FemDom solidarity!      

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Body worship, corporal punishment, latex and leather outfits, using subs as furniture, servitude (who doesn’t love a clean house?)      

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Not that I can think of. I have many fetishes and kinks and I’m always trying new things. I might like some more than others, but I wouldn’t say I have a least favorite. Fetishes that I definitely do not mess with are: age play, feces play, blood play, castration, and anything involving animals.      

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I play music, make art, read, write, and hangout with my dog! I love exploring my city and trying new foods.      

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

There are certain parts of it that definitely do turn me on, like the way I look in tight, latex or leather outfits. I don’t exactly get sexually aroused by domination, though it is extremely pleasing to me, which is why I do it. I love being in control. I call the shots.      

What are some of your turn offs?

Time-wasters, tardiness, and needy subs. I also hate it when subs think that I am here to please them. Excuse Me, who are you again? *flicks sub like a bread crumb into the void*      

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

I don’t have an ideal slave / sub. There are so many different aspects to being a sub, and so many different fetishes within FemDom that I think it would be impossible for Me to describe just one perfect sub. Subs have varying personalities and skills, and each one could be a favorite to Me in their own way.      

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Buy Me an item off my wishlist unexpectedly, or pay extra tribute before a session. Or build Me something!      

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

I love being able to be who I want to be, and being admired and worshipped for it. I am a kinky, alternative, shy, dark, seductive, perverted and artistic person in general and I love being able to implement those traits in My work. I love being Me!      

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I perform in clips, on cam, and in person! I love all of them, but my favorite is definitely in person.      

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Dommes- don’t forget self care! subs- give your Domina/Mistress/Goddess/Princess something really nice this month. It’s been a rough few months for us considering the political climate.  

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