Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

From my early teens I started abusing my boyfriend’s balls for fun. It was such a turn on that I never looked back! I found my interest in FemDom from being naturally bratty. So, the most attractive thing about FemDom for me is that I get my way every time. If I want a slave to crawl to me on his hands and knees in public, they are happy to oblige.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I have been interested in the lifestyle since I was 13 or 14. I had no outlet for my creative, and sadistic, energy until I was 18, and had my own car. I haven’t been involved professionally much longer than a year, but the number of fake accounts I see on twitter compared to my adventures on collarme/space is simply amazing.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Three times have I broken down laughing in the middle of a session. The first time, my boyfriend compared his cock to a slaves and it was like putting a cucumber next to a mini-hotdog. The second time, I was at the local tattoo and piercing parlor with a weekend regular, to get his dick pierced. When the piercer stuck the needle through the head of his cock, the slave almost jumped off the table and was cursing like a trucker. It reminded me of the 40-year-old virgin, “KELLY CLARKSON”. The third time, I was disciplining a slave and was not in a very good mood. I grabbed my slave by the balls and dug my nails in as I began to tell him about the punishment he was about to receive, when suddenly one of his dogs came up from between his legs and licked his tiny little cock out of nowhere. I couldn’t contain myself. I forgot all about the punishment!

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I love voyeurism/cuckolding. Having someone watch me fuck is such a turn on!

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I wish I knew how much fun it is to grab a sissy by his balls, or lead a slave around a packed club on a leash. I am an attention fiend!

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

I wish I could have all real time sessions, always. I connect so much better with slaves in person, and with other dommes too!

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

I mentioned it before, but cuckolding is a favorite. Outside of that, I am an extreme sadist. I have to tell myself to calm down sometimes because when I get really into it with someone who likes pain, it can get intense!

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

I don’t do anything with kids, or animals. Scat used to be on this list, but for the right client I have a toilet seat built on a box just for toilet play!

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I am a huge animal lover. I love driving stick-shift and will go on long drives for fun sometimes. I like to cook, and love burning that sweet ganja ;p

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

It has since I was a young teen! I used to be afraid I would never have a normal relationship because I can’t help but to dominate… One day I realized, that is normal. :)

What are some of your turn offs?

I don’t like slaves that are dirty. I always shower my pets before a session and before some of the intense pegging I may even use an enema on a slave!

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

I am always in the market for an obedient slave that expects nothing in return for their service to me. Age is not a factor, nor is gender. Ideally they will be secure in a job with expendable income so we can travel together and rent out dungeon space.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Finance another car for me, or mortgage a house/condo for me! I also really love the idea of more slaves getting my name tattooed on them. One is not enough! If a slave is tired of chastity, he has the option of getting his dick pierced for me. A couple of months after the piercing I may lock him up, but he is free (and sore!) until then.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

The control. I know it plays into the studied psychology of Domme/sub roles in vanilla life, but I really do love being able to give orders to my slaves without receiving any backtalk.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I offer clips, cam sessions and real time, in person meets. I prefer meeting in person, and make sure to soothe my slaves upon first meeting them for a session so as to let them get comfortable in the space and with me, before I get to work at breaking them down into whimpering idiots (not that most aren’t to begin with!).

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Don’t be afraid, book a real time session and you will get hooked! I can help you explore your craziest fantasies and can also help you to find subspace: that magical place where the pain of a good lashing turns into a soothing meditative trance! I am very discreet when need be, and I don’t judge anyone or any fetish unless they harm children, or animals.

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