Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I discovered it online a very long time ago. I discovered the online findom scene through a local foot slave. I was attracted to it because I have always felt females are the stronger sex. It’s very easy for us to control men and their raging boners :)

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I have been a Domme in person for well over 15 years. Next month (April) marks my 10 year online anniversary. There have been tons of changes since I first started. Back then, phone and cam were very popular. Now clips/videos rule everything. 6-10 years ago “slaves/subs” expected way less in return than they do today. Today they all act very entitled, in every way imaginable.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Getting to meet fellow Dommes in person at conventions, sharing ideas and stories.
Draining slave brad for well over $50k
I remember one of my first “cash meets” in 2007. A loser was supposed to meet a friend and I at Starbucks. He was late, and I embarrassed him in front of all the Starbucks customers. I made him walk across the street and get extra cash out of the ATM.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I’m obsessed with space, and Stephen hawking. The universe is sooo huge, and we haven’t even left one arm of the milky way! I even have the ISS App on my phone and like to watch it fly over every once in awhile :)

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

Not to let anyone waste my time, or get worked up over stuff. It’s just online, we all have lives outside of the internet.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

Prices. Ladies need to raise their prices. I’ve seen several fellow top domme’s who’s prices have been the same for 5 years now. Being a veteran in this industry is rare. Prices of everything else rise every year. We’re held to high standards when filming/camming etc. We’re expected to have good filming equipment, neat appearances etc. When you have bottom of the barrel prices and you’re a top domme, you’re hurting yourself and others. We need to set a standard and raise the bar.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Over all #1, findom. #2 would def be ball busting. I get a kick (haha, pun intended!) out of having a guy drop to his knees in pain at my feet. #3 would be foot worship.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Sissification/Feminization/cross dressing, I get nothing out of it.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Watching scary movies, they’re my fav! I also love reading, and spending time with my dogs. I’m a total home body.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Online – the rush I get from making a huge amount of money in a small amount of time. In person – If I see the power I have over someone and how weak they are for me.

What are some of your turn offs?

#1 turn off, men who think they are entitled/better/arrogant.
Time wasters, cheap customers

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Obedient, wiling to do whatever it takes to make me happy. Never late, never cancels, always puts me first in his life. LOYAL. Dedicated.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

The biggest way to get my attention is obviously money. Money speaks volumes in my book(because you’re giving away something you worked hard for), and so does loyalty. A lot of subs tend to bounce around these days.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Having power over men, obviously!

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I have offered clips for 8 years now, and I have been doing cam and RT sessions for 10 years on and off. I much prefer to do RT sessions over anything else, clips would come in 2nd place, and cam would be 3rd.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Have fun, you only live once!

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