Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I was always a strange girl. As growing up I noticed males picked to rather submit to me instead of acting ”normal”. I didn’t understand much about it, but I was that girl that would get red roses from secret admirers and that had young boys kneel in front of her.

I’m east european so I was shocked and intrigued to see males react to me in that way. Traditions are still important here. An a submissive male is still seen as being a freak.

As getting older and working in vanilla in challenging and mostly male oriented jobs I was put again in the position of expressing my Dominance and being surprised that all men would naturally submit to me and even loved doing so. It didn’t matter if I was the only woman working in a sea of men, when I appeared no one dared to defy me.

On a personal level, sexually, I knew I Loved to express my sadism and dominance.

I also had some finsubs/submissives that catered to my selfish desires. It could have been that expensive perfume I wanted from France, that absynthe bottle from Amsterdam, free services, free shopping no matter the store, males simply wanted to please me no matter the price.

Once a Dominatrix, always a Dominatrix. Vanilla life got strange for me, since so many men acted way too submissive towards me and like I’m a Domme and there was no point of denying it anymore. The Lifestyle Dominant Strict Lady and the Sadistic Sexy Domme emerged and I appeared online in 2012 expressing very openly all I’ve experienced and seen well basically all my life.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I became known in the online scene in 2012. I was writing about Fetishes/Bdsm for DommeDose/ On my Blog and on Some Forums and people from all over the world read me a lot.

Most appreciated me for sharing my knowledge about the Human psychology/ BDSM/ Sexuality. I have around 13 years of experience in Emotional Sadism/ Mental Dominance because the Human psyche has always been an interest of mine.

Doing things totally Different in terms of FINDOM/ FEMDOM / BDSM made me also controversial really fast. I took a break yet remained active in the shadow continuing to have submissives/slaves that served me for years and returned in 2016.

Many things changed. FINDOM got popular. I see A lot of FINDOM and not much BDSM anymore. This of course makes many males that are clueless about BDSM yet are into FINDOM become victims of mine really fast.

FINDOM is about Power and not much about Tease and Denial. Be careful what you’re getting yourself into. I do PLAY Hard.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Males did so many dramatic and extreme acts for me that’s hard to name just one.

Being put on a Male’s will. Having some giving me their wallet simply on the street in front of other vanilla males and begging me to take it. Making this Politician that was my slave break into pieces mentally and fear me for life.

I do many Bad things and I Do them well I don’t like living my life with limitations.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I had my first slave/finsub when I was just 15. He continued to serve me for many years.

People get shocked as hearing this because they don’t know that in fact I have an above average IQ and EQ so for me enslaving mentally/emotionally an older male even at that age was piece of cake.

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

That it’s what I am and that I should stop denying it.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

Most of my favourite fetishes are still classified as Taboos. I explore those a lot in my videos.

So I believe in being the change that I want to see in FemDom.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

First of all I’m an Emotional and Mental Sadist. So I can easily attract people and make them feel uneasy as they slowly lose control over their own feelings and mind.

For a male, this of course it’s a very erotic and sensual thing to experience. To feel like you’re no longer in control of yourself but a beautiful woman has you trapped into her web.

I am into Total Power Control as well. This comes easily combined with FINDOM.

I’ve noticed recently Males are giving me the Goddess worship treatement also. I simply receive gifts/tributes from unknown males as a form of devotion without any message/comment. It’s starting to feel very Erotic for me, not knowing WHO did that for me yet being aware they are lurking in the shadow.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

I don’t really believe in chastity but that’s because I have better ways.

Locking someone up doesn’t seem so exciting to me unless I know him really, really good and for a twisted reason I’ve decided to do this to him. That reason is very important.

You can’t extract a certain fetish from a BOX and use it just like that, without a meaning, a purpose, a fantasy. It simply loses value. And VALUE is something important to me.

Males actually Do Suffer for me and if I ever decide one deserves to be locked up it’s gonna be the most erotic yet cruel thing that has ever happened to him.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I paint, write, dance, love to read, collect antiques and travel.

I’m also a self-taught person so I’m always learning new things about everything.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

It always has. My Sexuality is wired that way.

Acting Sadistic with males has always been very erotic for me.

What are some of your turn offs?

Rudeness. Stupidity. Shallowness.

‘Less whine, more money” -That’s what I prefer.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Sapiosexual. Willing to experiment. Perfect gentleman with a kinky mind.

A ”Saw it all, done it all, wants something different” kind of a person. I like a mental challenge. I’m twisted myself.

Obedience as a form of respect is an important aspect also because no one ever wins with me so it’s pointless to struggle.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

What pleases me? I guess someone buying ALL my videos would be a big Turn On for me. It would show not only that the submissive is genuinely interested in ME but also eagered to spend to get to know more about me. My videos aren’t cheap. Purchasing them all at this moment would cost a person around 4500$

So when someone is willing to spend that sum just to see my videos and Feel my Sexuality I know for sure his interest is real.

Tributing High for my Vanity comes close also. I have a Luxury fetish for diamonds, furs, luxury lingerie pieces, haute couture clothes.

Males don’t really impress me. They’re quite predictable. But Extreme acts of Servitude might just do the trick. I Never say Never.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

I can be 100% myself and explore my sexuality and fetishes freely. I can be the person that I AM, not the person that I SHOULD BE. Watching the world burn just because I decided to be myself and make this video..

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I used to hate the idea of clips. As a Mental Sadist I focused for years a lot on the Mental aspect of Dominance/BDSM. I don’t regret it cause it made me really experienced when it comes to Mindcontrol/Mental Dominance.

Making clips of myself in which I show my raw Sexuality and Sadism on video excited me more than I thought it would. It answered my question as well: What do I DO to males Live that’s so strong that it makes them uncapable to think anymore ?! Seeing myself from their perspective, as a viewer, gave me a knowledge about myself that I wasn’t aware of before also.

I do consider doing Phone and maybe even Cam. I do offer sessions in person. I just am very picky. To me a session is a unique and special experience and I do it just with people I am very connected with and that have Suffered intensely for that honour.

Why should they suffer previously? Why not cash in and take advantage of males worldwide?

I’m a gifted person that connects with people on a high mental level. It’s a very powerful tool that can scare most people and damage them easily. I pick to use it just with those that are ready for it.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Always do whatever makes you feel Alive.

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