Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I’ve read about female domination in my teenage years, and even though it seemed interesting I never thought twice about it until I found out one of my best friends was a switch. He was very popular within the local fetish and femdom community, and one day he invited me to a dungeon session. It was awkward at first, but once the dynamic changed between the Domme and Sub it was one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen. It wasn’t about the whips and the attributes, it was about the power exchange and the mental transformation that took place. Once I told my friend about my feelings, he introduced me to financial domination – the rest is history.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I’ve been a Domme for 4 years now. I met my first sub at a local munch and we clicked straight away. At that time I only did real time with him as my house- and money slave. After he moved abroad I did a few loose sessions but never found a connection. It was at that point that I really craved more and went online. It’s hard for me to notice a difference since real time and online differs so much..

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

A few actually! The first time I met my current real time slave, the slave that traveled for hours just to clean my house, the slave that visited me for 10 minutes and dropped of €1.000, decorating my new house entirely with slave cash, the gorgeous hotels I’ve stayed at, forcing slaves to buy expensive things for my man, and more. Every day is something new and there’s so many memories that stay.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I love burlesque and if I wasn’t a Domme I would seriously consider making burlesque my career.

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I wish I made better pictures when I first started out online! It was all very amateuristic, lol

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

I’d take out the drama! We’re all just Ladies doing our own thing, who cares if some do it different?

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Femdom Hypnosis, Financial Domination, Total Power Exchange, CBT , Goddess Worship, Lingerie, Luxurious Pantyhose and Cuckolding

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

I never dabble in fetishes I dislike. Many things do not speak to me such as race play, water sports, etc.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I love being outdoors! Hiking, kayaking and seeing new places. I love to travel and will certainly do it more.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Yes :) I love being worshiped and adorned by smitten boys! Seeing a big

What are some of your turn offs?

Men who don’t have their shit together, men who think I’ll jump through hoops for them, whiny subs and people who aren’t loyal. To name a few!

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

The submissive gentleman. Selfless, generous, honest and completely love struck.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Consistently impress me with thoughtful gifts. Someone who never slacks and always makes sure I’m pleased. Go the extra mile for Me and you could become My favourite good boy.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

The rush that comes with bringing a man to his knees, making yourself the centre of his universe! Creating a little ‘army’ of devotees all over the world. Also the freedom to do whatever I want whenever I want, and to meet amazing open minded Women.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I love creating sensual domination clips. It’s a way to express my very own fantasies and show them to the world. I’m always looking for ways to improve my clips and it certainly is one of my favourite things about this job. Cam sessions are fun if I have a good connection with the submissive. Real time is reserved for one lucky slave at the moment who’s been serving me for 2+ years and I wouldn’t want it any other way. I’m certainly done meeting up with strangers for now.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Ladies, focus on yourself and what turns YOU on. Don’t do anything you dislike as it will show eventually. Allow yourself to grow, consistency is key. Surround yourself with Women who inspire you and ignore the drama. For the men: appreciate the Women of this industry more, because without Us you’d be nothing. Common decency goes a long way.

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