Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I think I probably first discovered FemDom on late night HBO. I feel like growing up that was where I was introduced to a lot of kinks and different aspects of sexuality. I think dominating men was just natural for me from a pretty young age. As soon as I realized I was hot and could use my sexuality to boss men around, doing so was just second nature.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I started dipping my toe into domming nearly 9 years ago now, though I’ve only been doing it full-time about 5 years or so. Every year female domination becomes more and more mainstream which comes with the benefits of social acceptance, but also a flood of new-comers who think they know much more than they do and think they can tell veterans of the craft how to practice their art.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

A lot of my most memorable moments are sweet and caring aftercare with subs for whom I feel a genuine connection and affection. Those are very personal moments, so I won’t go into details, but when you truly feel a deep connection with a sub, it can mean the world to stroke their hair while they cry in your lap.

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I thought going into it that there were very strict black-and-white rules on what was and was not okay for a Domme to do and how one had to behave. I love my tits. I love showing off my tits. I wish I had realized I could show my tits and still be taken seriously as a Domme sooner.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

I’d find a way to charge time wasters for wasting my time.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Hypnosis is my absolute FAVORITE fetish, but I also enjoy foot worship, religious blasphemy and satanic play, financial domination, and forced intoxication.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Religious humiliation (I don’t want to make fun of you for being Christian, I just want to make you worship Baphomet) and racial humiliation. I just don’t like the way I feel when I engage in those kinds of fetishes. Nothing against anyone who does, I just feel guilty when I try to engage in that kind of play and it takes me out of Domme space.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Watching conspiracy theory videos on YouTube, reading hard sci-fi, being an annoying dog-mom, and a lot of DIY-crafting projects. I also want to get more into blogging and making experimental YouTube videos.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Certain types of play, specifically hypnosis financial domination do. A lot of other kinds of FemDom activities don’t turn me on, but I enjoy the feeling of power I get from them in a non-sexual way.

What are some of your turn offs?

Arrogant men, men who lack ambition, and people who think smoking weed is a replacement for personality. Nothing against smoking weed, but when it becomes your WHOLE life, you’re just boring.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Smart, rich, generous, non-manipulative, easily manipulated, enjoys my brainwashing fantasies as much as I do.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

4-digit tributes are always nice. I LOVE when subs create fan-art for me and show off their creative skills.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I love camming and in-person sessions, but I love creating clips most of all. I love getting to flex my creativity and creating visually-striking videos. It’s gone from being a job-skill to a passion for me.

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