Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I discovered it 7 years ago. I was always dominant by nature so it felt like it’s the right niche for me. Working independently and making great money while doing something you love.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I have been in Domme for about 7 years. I started selling personal goodies on different auction sites. Then I realized how many guys are out there looking for Domme experience. I think what changed in this industry is that there are so many young newcomers insta-Dommes that demand money and attention instantly. I believe you have to be in Domme world for at least a few years and gain your knowledge and earn respect in this community before you start demanding instant money.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Most memorable moment for me was meeting my long-term Slave after he served me for 2 years. I’m picky about who I meet with. The Slave has to prove himself first. He paid $20,000 to have the honor to serve my feet for 2 days. Just feet, it’s awesome!

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I’m originally from Moscow, Russia.

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I wish I knew how to screen time-wasters, useless “please let me serve you” emails. I used to spend hours writing emails back and forth. Now I won’t spend more than 5 minutes on emailing with a new slave. I can sense a time-waster wanna-be Slave from a mile away. He must pay first to earn my attention.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

I’m not sure. I’m pretty happy about this wonderful women-empowering community. I’m happy to be part of it. Seeing each other growth. We learn from each other, we support each other.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Cuckolding is my #1 fetish. After that I like Humiliation , coerced bi, Taboo and sissy training.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Blackmail is my least favorite because I never truly understood this fetish in depth. I think before you take on a new fetish you have to research it and see the roots of them. Otherwise it’s a fail.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I enjoy cooking and traveling.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Yes , FemDom turns me on. In bed I get off on being dominant and get what I want.

What are some of your turn offs?

In Slaves I can’t stand their Cheapness. Some Slave feel entitled to my time, they demand attention, but it’s my personal time and you have to pay for it.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Respectful, humble, obedient, intelligent and RICH ;-)

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

I love my long-term and loyal Slaves. They are respectful and never pushy. If I see a loyal Slave who stayed with me for years instead of jumping from Domme to Domme – it impresses me.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Control & Power over men. Seeing them melt under my spell and obey my commands. I believe all men have submissive nature in them, they try and hidden it, BUT it just takes a certain woman to get it out of them.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I do a lot of video filming. I list 2 videos per day . I think new content is important for my fans to stay engaged. I take my clips serious and put my heart into them. I want the viewer to feel connected to what’s happening in the clip. I spend lot so of hours writing different Fetishes scripts. I also do Skype camming twice a week.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

To all the beautiful Dommes out there I want to say how amazing you are! Stay true to yourself and never give up! Every Domme is special in their own way.

To all the subs I want to say: Don’t Be cheap, don’t feel entitled, respect your Goddess, be a gentlemen . Now get on your knees and kiss my feet! ;-)

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