Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I think it was inevitable that I would discover the world of female domination. I have always been fascinated by human sexuality – I adore how attraction and desire and longing is so incredibly complex and unique to every human, the way the pleasures of both mind and body can be so interconnected in unexpected ways. It is incredible to me.

This fascination led me to the fetish world, a wonderland of kinks and pleasures and desires – and I discovered female domination. I have always loved strong women, those who are confident and powerful and without apology. Watching normal men relinquish control of their bodies, finding pleasure in sacrifice and humiliation and servitude… I was intrigued immediately. Watching a woman take total control just felt right to me, and I had to try it for myself!

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

It’s been three years since I’ve joined this industry as a Domme, and I’ve noticed a lot of differences over this time. One of the most notable differences that I see is that Femdom work is becoming much more accepted. Before, it was more of a taboo and it was rarer for normal models to try their hands at Domme work, for fear of losing their audience or being judged as a Bitch. Now, I have lost count of how many vanilla models who find themselves intrigued by Femdom work, and want to explore their own personal power – and they LOVE it. It makes me so happy when I see another woman find her rightful place as a Goddess of her own world.

It has also been fascinating to watch the market change as technology grows. Before, Dommes mostly operated on one or two clips sites, a phone sex site, and one or two camsites. Now, there are so many avenues for FemDommes to explore. There are more clip sites than ever before, there are more cam sites, there are new texting platforms, more social media avenues. We can interact with subs even easier, we can allow them true glimpses into our lives, we can provide more content, easier than ever before. It’s rather remarkable – and it’s even more amazing to think about what new things will become available in a few more years!

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

I remember my first four-digit day was quite an experience. Years ago, I had spent weeks working for other people, sacrificing countless hours to bring home a third of that. When I had my first four-digit day, I knew I had found my true calling, and I knew that I would never again return to vanilla life.

Another memorable experience was my first birthday as a Domme. My good boys worked hard to save up to surprise me, and I loved knowing that the day of my birth was their new Holiday, a day filled with celebration. To open those presents and receive those tributes and the beautiful notes that accompanied them… It was fantastic birthday.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I think amethysts are prettier than diamonds. I might be a brat, but I am also a very positive person and I smile more than most humans you know. What can I say? Being a Goddess is all sorts of fun! I am also super petite, which shocks a lot of people when they meet me. I rarely wear jewelry because it’s so difficult to find rings and bracelets that won’t just slip off of my fingers and wrists. I also have pretty tiny feet! Usually, my shoes are anywhere between sizes 5 ½ and 6!

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

If I had advice for any new Domme, it would be this: Don’t be afraid to charge what you know you are worth. Charge for everything. Your time is valuable and you are too. Also, there’s no Right or Wrong way to be a Domme. If a woman finds power in flaunting her nude form, she is just as much of a Domme as the woman who dresses from neck to toe in leather and latex. Just as there are thousands upon thousands of Dommes in the world…. There are just as many styles of domination. Find what works for you. Find what makes you feel confident, what makes you feel like the Queen that you are – and rock it out. Don’t get sucked into drama. Just focus on you and yours, and you’ll be much happier.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

This has less to do with the Femdom industry and more to do with the adult industry as a whole… But I wish that “fans” realized how damaging piracy can be. I wish there were better ways to combat it. Piracy is becoming more and more commonplace, and while subs think they are winning by getting free content… It backfires. I have seen so many women stop participating in fetishes that they enjoy, simply because that content is more likely to be stolen. I have seen producers stop producing completely because piracy has eaten into their profits. Time that could be spent creating new content instead must be devoted to tracking down pirated work… No one wins in the long-run.

If you enjoy a Domme’s work, then a true sub will pay for it. It takes hard work to produce quality content, and paying for your videos is the greatest way to show your appreciation for said work.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Oh my. There are almost too many to count! But I’ll try! Financial domination comes first, of course. What woman doesn’t get aroused at money being poured into her hands? Forced bi and cum eating are two of my top favorite fetishes, followed by Mesmerize. All three of those fetishes are genuine turn-ons for me. I love watching men suck cocks, I love watching them force themselves to lick up their own cum, but most of all? I love manipulating their minds. There is a special thrill that comes from discovering a man’s weaknesses and using them against him, twisting the pathways of his mind and rearranging them completely. Turning a disgusting, useless man into a useful, obedient pet.

I love Goddess Worship and I am a total Tease with a capital T – I know I am sexy, and I know how much men want me. It is one of my favorite games, to show off and tease until they are collapsing into a puddle of moans and whimpers and begging so sweetly for release. But it’s even more fun to deny them, to bring them to the brink of bliss and pull them away at the last minute. It never fails to make me laugh.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Racial humiliation is an immediate No for me. Sissification humiliation is also a turn-off. Women are beautiful, powerful, divine creatures – and humiliating sissies for wanting to embrace their feminine self… I celebrate them for trying to become closer to Perfection.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I love reading and writing, improving my mind and learning more about the world. I am a very creative person, and nothing makes me happier than using my energy to create art, whether it is through written word or sewing or drawing. I love poetry and if I need to relax, that’s usually how you’ll find me. I love video games, and in my free time, you’ll find me either playing Fallout 4 or Guild Wars 2. I also collect graphic novels – they are the perfect combination of my adoration for words and my love for art. Shopping is another one of my favorite past-times – I will never grow tired of surrounding myself in beauty, while spending money that others have worked hard to earn!

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Femdom genuinely is a huge turn-on for me. I love being in control. I love having the freedom to be myself, to demand everything that I deserve, to be cruel to those who deserve it, to change the lives of men who would be nothing with me. Being worshiped is an incredible turn-on. To know that I have the power to destroy a pet or break him down and rebuild him into something better… To have the power to snap my fingers and have my desires become reality… Now that’s hot. I’ll never get enough!

What are some of your turn offs?

When a slave tries to top from the bottom. Usually it involves the most clumsy attempts at manipulation, and I don’t play those games. Other turn-offs include dishonesty, rudeness and empty wallets.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

I value politeness in my slaves, those who treat all others respectfully. A pet who truly is ready to devote themselves to me entirely. To accept me as their Goddess, to put me First before anyone else. Who works hard to make me smile, and accepts their own desires as less-important. Obedience and honesty is what I prize in my slaves, as well as respect. I like toying with pets who like to have fun, who find true joy in servitude. I enjoy pets with open-minds, those who like to explore new things and expand their worlds. I value intelligence, adoration, and those who work hard for my sake. And above all, such a slave knows that my time is valuable and worth paying for, and proves it by being appreciative without being clingy or demanding.

I am very particular about those whom I accept as a pet, for they are a reflection of Me. I know that I deserve the best!

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

For starters? Learn more about me! Read my social media, look over my website, buy my clips. Learn about what I like and don’t like, learn what makes me smile! After that? Go ahead and make me smile. Don’t wait for permission, but take initiative and send me a tribute or send me a gift card. Subs who know how to spoil Dommes without expecting anything in return… Those are the good boys we notice first.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Boredom is one of the greatest sins in my world – and unfortunately, I get bored very easily. But being a Goddess means I will never get bored with this job. Every day is something new and exciting. There will always be a new boy to toy with, new assignments for pets to complete for my amusement, more beautiful content to create, new games to play. It’s always exciting, and there are always a thousand and one things to laugh about.

As a Leo, I thrive when I am the star of the show. I am a Goddess. I love being adored. I love being worshiped. I love watching men fall on their knees before me. It is incredibly intoxicating. I was born to rule over men, wallets and cocks alike, and watching my bank account grow fatter with every day? That’s the delicious cherry on top.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I offer both clips and cam sessions, and soon I will be offering phone/text sessions as well. Personally, I love clips the most. I love the creativity that clips allow me, both in front of a camera and in the editing stage. How I can take a mesmerize video and create a work of art that will reshape the minds of men… There is a certain satisfaction to that. Plus, there’s that extra fun bonus of knowing that no matter what I do, men are paying. While I am sleeping, I am making money. While I am going out to eat and flirting with beautiful people, I am making money. While I am dancing at the club, hips swaying under kaleidoscopic light, I am making money. It’s so much fun!

But I do enjoy one-on-one interactions with subs as well, in the form of cam sessions. I enjoy seeing men follow my orders and complete every task. I enjoy hearing every whimper, and seeing the desperation grow in their eyes. I love the way their voices tremble under the fervor of their devotion, hearing their words crack with desperation. That is erotic to me in a way that clips are not.

However, I do not offer RL sessions, and I cannot see myself offering them in the near future.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

To Fellow Dommes: You are such inspiring, magical, amazing people. I am so thankful that this job has introduced me to so many magnificent women – I have made such beautiful friendships and I have found an incredible community of support. Every time I see you succeed, I want to cheer. Your hard work & strength & creativity inspires me in every way, and I’m so thrilled to surround myself with your fierce beauty & cunning minds. A shout of to Mika herself: You know I absolutely fucking adore you. Thank you for creating this space, for building this website and spending so much time in helping others find their feet on this fun Femdom path!

To subs: Go tribute the Domme in your life, right now. Surprise her with a beautiful note and tell her how lucky you are to have her in your life, how grateful you are. Because we both know she deserves it. ^_^

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