Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I already knew about female domination because I had a good friend that was a dominatrix who conducted real time sessions and she would share stories with me. I was attracted to FemDom because I’m a control freak and I love having power over men and making them do whatever I want.      

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I’ve been a ProDomme for a little less than year so I’d say there hasn’t been any major changes in the industry in the time I’ve been in it but I’m interested to see what comes next!      

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Some of my most memorable moments in FemDomme have been successfully draining men over Instagram, receiving a few beautiful gifts from my wishlist on my birthday and being flown up to NYC by a sub for real time sessions! Looking forward to even bigger and better!

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I’ve actually lived abroad three times, once in Dublin, Ireland, another time in Salamanca, Spain and most recently in Madrid, Spain! I love being totally immersed in other cultures and will definitely live abroad again in the future! (Those who buy my clips would probably notice I wear my Claddagh ring every day. I bought in Ireland 6 years ago!)

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

There’s not really too much I wish I knew. I had some mentorship from my Domme friend and so far, things have just fallen into place for me. Maybe I’ll be able to answer that question better in a few years time 😉

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

More unity amongst Dommes as opposed to a spirit of competition or jealousy. I believe in abundance and that there’s enough success to go around. Those negative feelings ladies have towards each other are based on the illusion of scarcity.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

I love anything related to cruelty including, CBT, Cuckolding, Corporal Punishment, Humiliation, Chastity, and, of course, Financial Domination. I also love mind fucking

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Least favorite play would be “brown showers”. I’ve never done one but it has been requested. I don’t ever see engaging in that because it’s quite unsanitary and I’m obsessed with cleanliness.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Cooking Vegan recipes (even though I’m not vegan), writing in my journal, and traveling to new places (especially internationally)!

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Rude people and internet trolls. Basically anyone who’s more focused on putting other people down as opposed to working towards their own goals! That’s the definition of a loser!

What are some of your turn offs?

Rude people and internet trolls. Basically anyone who’s more focused on putting other people down as opposed to working towards their own goals! That’s the definition of a loser!

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Prove himself to be a real addict by buying clips daily and sending tributes and gifts regularly. He would also be very creative in finding ways to impress me and be consistent throughout his servitude. I’m impressed by men who push themselves beyond their comfort zone. Anything else is just boring.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Prove himself to be a real addict by buying clips daily and sending tributes and gifts regularly. He would also be very creative in finding ways to impress me and be consistent throughout his servitude. I’m impressed by men who push themselves beyond their comfort zone. Anything else is just boring.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

It’s financially rewarding. I’m one of those lucky people who has a job that I love and am passionate about! I also love having control and power over others and convincing someone to do something they ordinarily wouldn’t for my benefit!

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I love performing in clips and having complete control of my creative process from set to lighting to wardrobe. It’s exciting to have an idea just pop into my head and then create a clip from that. So far I haven’t conducted many online sessions. They can be fun too but but I prefer real time sessions because you feel everything so much more deeply. It’s a more well-rounded experience that you can take in with all your senses (instead of just sight and sound like you’d have online).

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

So glad to have made the decision to become a ProDomme as my career. I see doing this (making clips and conducting real time and online sessions) for a very long time. It has always been my destiny to be a powerful woman so by doing this I really feel that I’m living my dream!  

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