Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

It was during an economic hard time for me and my friend (no longer in the scene) introduced me to a fb foot fetish group and it grew from there. Enough men begged me to dominate them that I tried it….and I liked it. And I branched out from there.      

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I entered the scene in November of 2014. I started out on facebook and am now more on clip sites/cam sites/ and twitter. When from a VERY small group of domme friends to meeting a ton of beautiful encouraging inspiring ladies so if anything I’d say that’s changed for the better. I’d say the only reason the industry has really “changed” that I’ve really noticed is because I changed websites I used, befriended more people, and just gave men way less of my time and it’s worked out wonderfully.      

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

One of them was on myfreecams in June where a sissy of mine spent about 4 hours or so in a private with me which contributed to one of my highest payouts on that site. (He also sent a $200 giftcard but that’s not really the point). The entire private was spent just casually chatting. I loved it.
Another memorable was when I decided to start doing clips. This is where I discovered my love of cei. And in a skype with a sub, I had him eat his for the first time. The reaction was priceless and I laughed so hard I cried.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I am an introvert. I thrive when I’m alone. Possibly why you will never likely catch me at an event like AVN, etc.      

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I wish I knew more of the scams when I started. The typical tricks that timewasters use. I wised up but it would have been a good time saver.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

I’m torn between removing all the men who don’t and never will pay and a less amount of drama overall.      

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

CEI, CBT, chastity, and SPH

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

I am not into raceplay at all, I won’t do any kind of watersports, etc, I am not into any kind of incest style things, and religious humiliation is one of my least favorites because I’m only comfortable going after the Christianity religion that I was raised on. Too uncomfortable with the others and it visibly shows. I don’t like public humiliation either.      

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I’ve been dancing and baking both for about half of my life or more. (I actually have some short clips of dancing on my private twitter but I’m not as good as I used to be lol). I greatly enjoy baking cupcakes and sugar cookies because they are SO fun to decorate.      

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Some things do something don’t. I do have a legitimate CBT fetish and I know those high money days are definitely a turn on. So I guess my turns on are hurting balls and money.

What are some of your turn offs?

Unsolicited dick pics, when men get whiny, trying to top from the bottom, etc

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Obedient, knows his limits, similar fetishes, doesn’t push boundaries, has respect for my time, and pays

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

When they do something completely selfless. I mean paying for a skype, buying clips, buying film clothing all benefits them in some way or another. But paying my bills doesn’t. Paying for groceries doesn’t. Funding my massive bath bomb addiction doesn’t usually. They stand out when they do that.      

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Being a domme has actually changed a lot of things about me. Increased confidence, etc. I had massive phone anxiety for years but niteflirt greatly helped with that.
And then there is the community and all of these beautiful women that inspire and support me.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I prefer clips because to me I find it easier. And the challenge of trying to find a creative idea is exciting for me. I don’t mind cam but I find it uncomfortable a lot of the time. I still have both. In person is more iffy for me because I am only willing to meet people who have served a long time. I enjoy real time less.      

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Thank you for the interview.  

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