Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I think Femdom came to me, rather than the other way around. I remember going to swingers parties, about a decade ago, and never do anything. I suppose that being the only clothed female in a naked people setting was extremely attractive to subs. Men would just naturally kneel before me and call me Goddess, worship my Loubs, even lay money at my feet… I’d respond by using NLP and hypnosis techniques I’ve learned at home. I had no idea it was actually a thing back then. I then developed a connection with a handful of moneyslaves who were a lot of fun to play with. That became my thing.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I have been a domme for eight years now. I think the main difference is how big the online scene has become compared to a few years ago. The online scene, especially on social media is a totally different world from the international pro-domme scene: many dommes on social media aren’t pro-dommes in the sense that they don’t do real time sessions, rather, it’s more about the fantasy of domination. They usually come from other very diverse areas in sexwork, such as camming, for example, which is probably why they don’t view domination the same way. It’s very interesting. Many real time dommes started as submissives or have been mentored by another pro-domme. I was a partygoer who got into it by accident…

When I started as a pro-domme, it was common to have a website, but social media was usually left out a bit. Being a domme was something taboo, and let’s not forget it still isn’t decriminalized in many countries… Now it has acquired a more glamourous image. Probably because cam girls brought the “adult entertainer” state of mind to it. I see more and more young women aspiring to be dommes. The clip world is a whole segment of the industry that has now become big in Femdom. I think Femdom is becoming more accessible thanks to this online, fantasy domination. I’m very eager to see what the future holds.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

That time when my favorite moneyslave tributed me an apartment in Paris, earlier this year. The handful of times I’ve been tributed €50k (I documented one of them on social media), non-taxable of course. I usually don’t brag too much about these online because you have to blur every single name and address on the official documents… It loses its intensity. Or that time I spent $40k (US dollars of course) using my slave’s Centurion in Hong Kong, just for shopping. Real time, elite financial domination! He loved it even more than I did…

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I was a leg model for many famous hosiery brands. I still see my legs on some of their packaging…

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I have always been very intuitive, I usually sense things, rather than learn them the hard way. My intuition has never failed me. I’m very lucky.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

I believe I’m contributing to change it already, as much as I possibly can at my level. I feel like I have gained somewhat of an international recognition this past couple of years, or at least enough to be influential when I share my opinions or debut trends, be it in the pro-domme/fetish scene, on social media or with my clips or concepts. I’m very grateful for all the positive feedback I get from the community. I now mentor a select few aspiring pro dommes. They are the change I want to see…

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

I’ll answer with my both my kinks and my fetishes. A fetish is the sexualization of a body part, of an object, or of a fabric or matter. A fetishist isn’t necessarily a submissive, for he may not be able to access his submissive side unless his fetish is strongly involved, and conversely, not all subs are fetishists. A kink, on the other hand, focuses more on the person. And I’m all about the power exchange…

Being an ex ballerina and leg model, my signature fetish clearly is leg fetish. Not only I’m incredibly flexible, I apparently also have the perfect legs-to-body ratio. It’s not simply about how long my legs are, it’s that I happen to have the Golden number in my body proportions. I think that’s why I made so much money with my legs, both with modelling and in Femdom, especially considering the fact that leg fetish isn’t normally a common fetish at all… Foot fetish is way more popular for example. I enjoy foot fetish a lot too, as well as high heel fetish, hand and nail fetish, and of course money fetish.

As for kinks, I like financial domination and hypnosis the most, since it’s what I specialize in. Especially under TPE. That would be my kink. But I also like tease and denial, cuckoldry and blackmail a lot. Anything that falls under the umbrella of Psydom, actually. I’m very cerebral in the way I view sexuality. I think that translates into my domination style.

Do you have any least favorite [fetishes] kinks and why?

I used to believe that I absolutely hated cuckoldry, but it has grown to be one of my favorite now. I think that my fetishes and kinks are ever evolving, as is my sexuality. So, never say never…

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I like writing in many forms, from essays to poetry. I also produce my own music.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Yes, absolutely. I think it’s the reason I’m good at it.

What are some of your turn offs?

In general? I would say male entitlement. Neediness is also a huge turn off.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Intelligent, well spoken, with manners. Willing to explore and most importantly push his limits further. Both playful and obedient… I think I just described my favorite boys!

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

I’m not easily impressed. I suppose one has to make quite a sacrifice to really impress me… Pleasing me, on the other hand, is quite easy to do: anything from four figures would do!

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

The freedom, of course. Financial freedom, but also freedom of expression. I feel like I can express my views on feminism, on sexuality, on politics and other important topics without having to censor myself or tone my words down. And being my own boss is the best thing.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I don’t do cam, but I love in person sessions. It’s where all the fun is, you know? It’s how you actually develop a profound connection with a sub. Real time is very important to me. Online domination can only go so far… For me, it’s not just a fantasy, it’s a reality. It’s my life.

Producing clips (and particularly custom clips for my favorite subs) is definitely something I love to do. I have only been making clips for a year but it has become very important to me. I put a lot of passion in the videos I make. From the art direction (fashion style, makeup, lighting, sound design) to the content itself (NLP and hypnosis especially), everything reflects my personality as a Femdomme. I very much see clips as a means of artistic expression. Aside from clips, I have directed my first short film “THE MANIPULATRIX” (tot.cm/film) recently. That was such an intense experience, artistically speaking. I really want to direct more erotica films in the future.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Ladies, stay true to yourselves, always. Celebrate your difference. It’s what made me successful. That’s the secret!

Subs, don’t go buy my clips. You risk getting addicted. I’m serious.

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