Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

In late 2005 I was looking online to find out how to become a dominatrix and discovered you could do it online so I created My first Findom website in Jan 2006

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

Nearly 13 years and yes, selling clips has engulfed the industry.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

The first time taking a sub to sub space

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I’m originally from South Africa

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

Be consistent

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

Femdom being about pleasing the Domme not the dick.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Findom, chastity, tease and denial

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Strap-on and blackmail. No interest.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Gardening, travel, spending time in nature and expanding My knowledge on all kinds of subjects.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

I get urned on by being in control and causing pain, whether that be physical or financial.

What are some of your turn offs?

Bad manners, disrespect, poor men, unsolicited dick pics, male entitlement, ghosting.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Generous, honest, self aware and dedicated.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Go above and beyond for Me, contribute to MY needs, not the needs of their dick, dedicate their efforts and labour to benefiting Me.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Being in totally control of My choices and My life and of those who serve Me.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I prefer to session in person than on cam or in clips as I enjoy the personal connection which goes much deeper as I read the person and thrive off their reactions.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Dommes, connect and support each other. Subs, get you heads out your dicks.

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