Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

​In 2012 I found​ Myself newly single from a very long term relationship. I wasn’t ready to find a new partner but I found this particular dating website where I could connect with wealthy men who wanted female travel companions. One gentleman asked Me if I had heard of “financial domination”, I replied “no” and he asked if I could blackmail him of £3000… The rest is history… ;)      

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

​I have been an online Domme since 2012, although I had dabbled in the fetish lifestyle ​prior without realising this was a “thing”. I was humiliating Men on cam whilst at university, dressing up as a Dominatrix at fancy dress parties and putting a collar and leash around boys and girls necks, making men I had just met whilst I was out shopping buy Me clothes. I would even take them to cash points to withdraw money! So whilst new and inexperienced Dommes always come in waves, some stay and some go, the only thing I have really noticed is that a lot of people with not much experience are trying to train other Dommes… or some experienced Dommes are using their status to take advantage of new Dommes and that bothers Me a lot.      

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

​Being invited to Las Vegas for AVN 2016 was fantastic. As an Ebony Domme who is also English living in England, it felt great to be asked to represent a number of clip sites​ and I will hopefully be attending some other US Domme conferences this year. I have loved meeting Dommes from all over the world, working with really successful FemDommes and huge FemDom studios, was thrilled to session in Dubai and Italy and be recognised in the streets of India and Macedonia!      

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

​My favourite genre of movie is Kung Fu and during My A-Levels, I had to write a piece on My favourite actor which is Jackie Chan.​      

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

​That you need to keep your wits about you at all times. Always make sure you are safe, be careful who you trust and that not everybody that wants to know you, wants to be your friend. ​Social media harbours a lot of critics who lie in wait, ready to drag you down at the first opportunity they get!      

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

​There would be more support and positivity. A lot of Women want to bring others down due to a number of reasons but We should be able to work together more successfully rather than divided.​ A true Sisterhood.      

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

​Financial domination and bull whipping, mmmm. I ​absolutely love the power and control I have over males who say they are strong… but that is until they meet Me and they find themselves willing to sacrifice so much for Me. In just over a year I bought a brand new Mercedes Convertible and completed a huge refurbishment on My house. I even have two gentlemen who have forsaken all others and pledged to stay single for the rest of their lives, just to please Me… and that’s a massive turn on.      

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

​I don’t practice any fetishes I don’t like. It’s about My pleasure and satisfaction!​      

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

​I really enjoy fitness and spend a lot of time in the gym. I eat healthily and My followers know that travelling is one of My biggest passions. Between the end of 2015 and during 2016 I went on 8 holidays in 11 months travelling through so many countries having the time of My life, all thanks to the good boys who contribute to My FinDom lifestyle. I also love to do charity work, volunteering and I support My local community in fund raising events. The most fulfilling thing I used to do is give blood (sadly I cannot do this anymore as I had a few failed samples, nothing to worry about, I was just too dehydrated a few times!) But I am on the stem cell donor register so that makes Me very very very happy :)      

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

​MASSIVELY. When I talk to My boys about the money they return, or the whip marks I place upon their back, I can recall every moment and I become so aroused. I love the weakness these boys have for Me, that they are Mine to control and do whatever I wish with them…​      

What are some of your turn offs?

​Whiny subs, needy subs, subs who try to top from the bottom… That sort of thing makes My little kitty dry up​.      

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

​He would be completely selfless, patient, ​mature, always keen to impress, intelligent and mostly drama free.      

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

​Put Me in his will!      

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

​The freedom and flexibility I have in My life now. Being able to spend more time with the people I love and being more in touch with the slaves who have earned My time and attention.​      

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

​I love doing clips and I am doing more of them these days. It allows Me to have a better connection with My subs during the times I am busy in My vanilla life. I also enjoy cam and phone and My lines are on mostly Monday – Friday. The reaction I get from boys on these platform really strokes My ego for they know they are lucky to have exclusive time and attention from their loved Goddess, in their eyes, a celebrity… until their money runs out…     Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow dommes and subs?  

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

​Thank you DommeSource for creating this site and also your support of My FreeFinDomGuide – Free and helpful advice for new and promising FinDommes! It’s really encouraging to see FemDom Women help and support each other​ to become the successful Women we are all supposed to be. Subs – This is FEMALE DOMINATION. You are not here to call the shots or run the show, otherwise you would all be Masters. Be good, behave yourselves and respect the Women you are in the presence of. Know and understand your place which is at our feet. Once you do that, things will become so much easier and more fun for you… the life you have always wanted is right there for the living…  

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