Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I’m camming for years and I often face fetish requests from innocent foot fetish to awkward fart fetish or intense cbt. Every time I had to google new fetish request for more information and the more I was getting into the more I was feeling excited. Its like opening the whole new world. As I was learning more about FemDom I understood why I’m being often asked about certain fetishes, when you understand where it comes from you can manipulate and play with triggers. I can say for sure this was my best decision. I love what I do and I feel like there is huge field of activities in front of me.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I started slowly to get in 3 years ago. To be honest I didn’t expect I will really succeed on cam with such product as FemDomme. There is Fetish category at some sites but it was too much BDSM like all models profile pics in chains and vinyl and kind of “dirty fetish” description which freaking me out. But apparently there is tons of visitors of cam sites who seeking for their one and only perfect Goddess they craving to spoil and serve. Selling mental domination when you being surrounded by nude models with tons of sex toys is like everyday being asked “why you are dressed?”, “what you doing in your shows if you don’t strip?”. “why you charge so high, are you so special?”, “why you charge to show feet, its just feet not even tits” etc.

I have seen many changes in the camming industry for last years but I cant be specific about FemDomme changes its not enough time for me yet to compare :)

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Plenty in fact, sometimes I think I could write a book about it. Sometimes fun, sometime weird, sometimes awkward. Recently I had a customer with over 1 hour cam session and he spend 1k for conversation about his kinks, at the end he asked why I didn’t show much excitement about his spending. While I’m used to it and I said “good boy, but you should do better to impress me”. I think Financial Domination is most memorable experience for me. I won’t say it’s easy though. But after years of camming and seeing what men doing to their bodies its really hard to be impressed with something but really huge money :).

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I met my boyfriend online at one of the cam sites we both were performers. That was years ago before I switched to FemDom so no he is not submissive or fetishist. And no we never cammed together but he is my number one admirer and huge support no matter what I’m doing on cam. Sometimes he asks me if his worn out shoes might interest some of my subs, or maybe ripped smelly socks. And it worked, I had devoted slave who was buying gifts from My Alpha wish list and licking dirty shoes pretending its Master shoes. My face hurt from laughing during those sessions.

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I guess the only question you face as newbie Domme is “how to” about everything. But nobody can teach you being yourself, the rest of theory is open source. This is actually what works best.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

Hard to say, I like what I see for moment.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Foot fetish, cum eating instructions, jerk off instructions, mind fuck, edging instructions, verbal humiliation. Many of my customers enjoy hearing my voice, this is what making my style-the way I talk and feet. But I also perform with various fetishes.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Yes. I don’t like extreme cbt instruction, mostly I don’t like seeing psychical pain is not related with my style. I’m sensual myself, its more natural for me. I can be mean but cant be sadistic. But I never stop customer to do what he wants. Some need just to be seen I can deal with those.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I love cinema, music and traveling a lot. And I used to be geek girl. Computers and technologies was my huge hobby for years.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

In sexual way no, in mental yes. Femdom makes me think and makes my brain work all time.

What are some of your turn offs?

I cant deal with boring or stupid people (uneducated). I cant help myself so bad I wanna slap them.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Agrr. The biggest deal is when sub/customer not being clear with his expectations or ideas. Asking lot of questions to figure out what he likes makes me bored. I do my best when I have certain “task” to work it out.

So ideal customer for me is the one who can clearly express his mind.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Big tribute. Cash is the king. Always.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Endless opportunities to express myself.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

Camming is my biggest FemDom part for moment but I feel like I wanna take a break of it and focus more on clips. I don’t plan to quit cam but reduce it for a while and I’m thinking to switch to phone. The hardest part for me is being out of focus when I’m multitasking this doesn’t help being productive. I don’t offer sessions in person.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Female domination is so natural and every Domme deserve devoted true honest admirers. I’m happy being a Domme and belong to this community.

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