Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I was doing foot fetish modeling & guys kept asking me to dominate them. I’d always been a strong, Alpha female. Always the one in charge in a relationship, so it was a natural progression…

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

4 years now & it’s been the most INCREDIBLE four years of my life! The main differences I’ve noticed is how many of the listing boards for advertising in-person sessions, have gone down. I can’t imagine starting out as a FemDom now, it would be sooo much harder and require 4x the amount of work. I’m glad that I got my start when I did and that I have a strong base of very loyal clients.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Have a sub that is 100% completely devoted to ME. He spoils me rotten, getting me gifts at random, sending me money just because. I also know I can call on him when there is something specific I want and tell him he needs to get it for me. He doesn’t see any other Domme’s and serves me and me alone. He makes no demands on me but is thrilled when I make demands upon him. He shows his devotion by seeing me in person, buying my clips, and doing phone sessions with me. During our in-person sessions he doesn’t just say “Mistress, I will do anything you want” but he actually means it. Actions speak louder than words. Subs like this are what makes it all worthwhile.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

Sometimes I can be very strict, some might even say sadistic…but other times I can be very kind, caring and similar to how “Mommy” might be

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

1) It’s a lot like running a business (or empire as I like to call it) in the “vanilla” world, however we don’t have a lot of the luxuries that vanilla businesses do (for example many payment processors or banks won’t work with anything that falls under “adult entertainment”) so we are constantly having to adapt and change and learn new ways of doing things.

2) How much “education” goes into what we do. There is a lot of learning & education in being able to get better at the things we already do as well as learning new things and expanding our list of fetishes that we offer.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

More “real” subs! There are so many subs who are time wasters or just like to talk, talk, talk but when it comes to putting their money where their mouth is, are a no-go!

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Oh gosh I have so many favorites! I’d say spanking, bondage, forced feminization, sensual domination, role play, ABDL/age play, tickling, sploshing, and more.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Needle play and anything involving permanent marks. I’m not sure why, I just know they don’t interest me.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Swimming, sunbathing, fine dining, reading, and watching movies (especially at iPic theatres)

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Having a sub send me a HUGE tribute, taking me on a major shopping spree, sponsoring a trip, or sending me to a day at the spa are all major turn on’s! Some scenes that I have done with subs have also been extremely hot and just like subs, I like to “revisit” those particular scenes in fantasy because it was sooo incredibly amazing.

What are some of your turn offs?

Cheap, demanding men who call themselves subs. Or subs that constantly talk about what they are going to get for you or do for you and they never follow through

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Loyal, hard working and devoted to me, regularly tributing me, being honest and authentic.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Any random tribute of money is always noticed. It’s also nice when a sub sends a gift that doesn’t directly benefit him (subs are always eager to buy sexy clothing as gifts so they can see the outfit in a clip or in person, but taking on my utility bill or paying for web hosting, or to get me a Go-Pro camera are a step above & beyond)

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

The power and control dynamic. As well as that although from the outside, a lot of BDSM seems like it’s about pain & punishment, there’s the whole caring for your sub, and the special kind of relationship that a Domme has with her sub…it’s very hard to compare it to any other type of relationship out there. I am part mom, part disciplinarian, part sexy-as-hell-teasing-you-beyond belief tormentor, part Boss-Bitch, part friend and mentor. I also enjoy all the variety of what I do. I wear many hats in running my empire.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

Yes, I do tons of clips & of course in-person sessions as well. Love them both!!! Check out my clips and let me know what you think…I know nothing about camming, so can’t really talk about that.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Don’t put off what you can do today till tomorrow, tomorrow may never come. And I guarantee you don’t want to live with regrets. That’s it for my words of wisdom.

Hugs & spanks,
Miss Jenn Davis
(also known as Miss Jenn Disciplines)

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