Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

I’ve had quite a bit of memorable moments as a dominatrix. My favorite by far was going on a vacation with my long-time stable slave to LA. We stayed in a beautiful beachfront hotel in Laguna where my slave was on his best behavior, making sure my experience was nothing but relaxing and exciting. There was a special night where we went for an upscale dinner where I ordered dinner & drinks for both of us, my slave was not allowed to speak or look at the waiter. It was fantastic to see how the waiter soon caught on to not even acknowledge his presence. During this time my slave had a remote control vibrator attached to his penis that I buzzed whenever I felt like it. He, of course, paid for every single thing, as he should.

Another fond memory I have is going to DomCon and meeting several fans in person, getting my feet kissed never gets old. I went to an exclusive underground party in LA with another slave & friend…things started getting pretty intense in the red room where at the time I was a smoker & would use my slave’s hand as an ashtray. Soon after I started kissing my male friend, making my slave jealous…it was his first “light” cuckold experience & to this day he still replays the moment in his head.

Another fond memory was taking a week’s vacation on a beautiful island where I stayed at my slave’s B & B. He was my butler the whole time, running my bubble baths that overlooked a lush forest, massaged my feet, took me on tours around the island, cooked me dinners and made sure I never had to lift a finger. In fact, he wants to sell his B & B and buy a new place for me so he can be my full-time live-in butler slave, I’m considering this but have not decided on where I want to move…possibly to the states or further.

One more I’ll share is a whale I have who is a prominent businessman who flys me around to visit him. We get together we just have a good time, going to spas, shopping, dinner, chatting and other activities.

Beyond those memories, I have endless fond memories of all the slaves who served me when I was more of an RT domme. All the gifts, foot massages, and pampering were awesome.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I have attended 4 vipassana retreats. This is a silent meditation a person can attend by donation. You meditate in silence for 10hrs a day for 10 days…no gems, matra or silly newage gimmicks. The intense meditation has very strict rules: no eye contact, no social media, no reading, no speaking. I find it incredibly important to work on one’s self as no one is perfect & will all have things to work on. Self-awareness is the key but also not a common trait. I train Brazilian Ju-Jitsu which is full combat grappling martial art. Often I’m in a room with 20-25 people & I’m the only female….I love it! Not only do I love grappling with men way more than women, but it’s also more challenging. I’m just more of a tomboy at heart than a girly-girl.   I’m dyslexic & I have an “Executive Business” certificate from Mendoza College of Business through Notre Dame. I have a vanilla business I run, which does quite well.  I’m a wanderluster at heart & enjoy traveling the world.

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

Be careful what you say about your personal & business life….everything is on a need to know basis. People need to earn the right to know your story.  Be prepared for the emotionally unstable to reach out to you & project their mental issues. The internet is a hotbed full of unstable, abusive people…it’s also full of deceit. People will hate you when you are doing great & even when you breathe. Insecurity is an ugly trait.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

Well as long as you are a sex worker you will be judged & it doesn’t matter who decent you are as a human. So I would say judgment. I would change the hypocrisy and lies that are prominent in the business as well as favoritism.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Betas who are into gay fetishes….anything to do with gay gloryholes, bbc, trannies, sissies & anal training. I’m best known for my strapon & I’m damn good at verbal humiliation so I also love humiliating betas. I also love degrading losers to complete dehumanization through fart fetish….which is pretty gross but  I think it’s hilarious! Farting on a beta and making money off of it is the BEST job ever! Toilet slavery is also a pretty degrading fetish I love…it’s nasty & filthy yet so many slaves request it….. nowadays it’s becoming even more popular, who knew! I also love fucking up my subs with heavy-hitting intox/popper sessions and better yet if they are crossdressed or have toys to stuff their assholes with. Odd objects also work…so far a bat is the biggest I’ve seen & no one has made is past 50 popper sniffs in 5 minutes yet so that challenge is out there!

Most of all I don’t judge others for the fetishes they request or the domme who does them. There are too many hypocrites out there already. If it’s legal and agreed upon between two consenting adults then who am I to judge and get my panties in a knot? No sex worker is better than another. If you’re uptight and judgmental over a fetish/fantasy which is legal but maybe not moral in your mind maybe sex work isn’t for you.  Online sex work is a fantasy, it’s ACTING. So with that said I will push the envelope & embrace some pretty fucked up topics.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Personally I do not like cuckold fetishes that would have the sub fantasizing about “cleaning” me up after. I do not think a beta should ever touch my pussy or tits. he can lick my dirty ass but my tits and pussy are a firm NO.  Haircutting/salon fetish…just bores me.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Outside of Femdom I travel a lot & run a vanilla business. I train BJJ(Brazilian Ju Jitsu), Ashtanga yoga & calisthenics. Other things I enjoy: surfing, biking, hiking, photography, weight training as well as spending time with my family & friends.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Femdom mentally stimulates me. I am thoroughly entertained on a daily basis watching and listening to my slaves live out their fantasy. Betas do not turn me on but their money does make my pussy wet…the more they tribute the wetter I get. Send your tributes Now

What are some of your turn offs?

Turnoffs are cheap, broke betas. Secondly alpha’s contacting me. Beyond that, I would say time wasters and those that except the world for nothing. This IS a business, and if you want my attention pay up…it’s that simple. Some of these betas need proper training and learn proper protocol when contacting a dome.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

On his knees with his wallet open…just how he should be. I enjoy betas that really embrace being a loser and are a no-limits humiliation junkie. I also love popper sluts and those that pound their ass with large toys and weird objects. Crossdressers who get done up and dance like a puppet. Overall I like sub who is generous, tributes over 3 digits, binges on my clips and does whatever he can to grab my attention. Most of all polite subs who know what kind of fetish they want to explore. Subs who adore women and want nothing more than to give and please without needing to be told.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Clearly the best way is to tribute large, binge on my clips, leave an awesome review, follow me on social media…get obsessed with me. Manners are important…please, thank you and YES Mistress Madison.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Well, the money of course but beyond the tributes and gifts I also love the adoration I get on a  daily basis. I enjoy seeing how needy my slaves get and how much they love and obsess about me. The flexibility and freedom of this business are cat’s ass so that’s high on the list. I enjoy living out my own fetishes and natural domineering alpha personality. I enjoy watching my slaves perform on cam…who doesn’t like to start their day with laughter? I also love the psychology of this job, many subs come to me with personal issues that they feel they can express because of the nonjudgment. The feedback I get from subs that share their “coming out of the closest” experience or trying cock for the first time is awesome!

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I offer all 3. I prefer real-time over all of the choices because that is where my domme skills are really expressed, its beyond online acting. I enjoy the one on one interaction and how much more physical it is. real-time is more intense and personalized. Fetish phone simply because of how low maintenance it is….I can do it for long hours and don’t even have to brush my hair! I can be in my pj’s chilling and boom I get a call!  Webcam because that is like a hybrid of fetish phone and real-time in sense. It’s medium maintenance…yes I gotta dress up but there is still a good amount of interaction and I find it is highly profitable for me. I also love cam because I get a lot of cam to cam shows where I get to see my sub dressed up, fucking his ass or doing whatever the show leans toward. Next is making clips…this requires more maintenance but it’s the smartest way to go because it’s passive income and you’re not “on-call”.  Clips are something I will be getting more into.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Subs if you haven’t realized what to do to get my attention yet the first step is to follow me on social media, send a tribute through any site I work on. No tribute = no attention from me. Make sure you binge on my clips and keep going. Click > Obey > Pay…..it’s really that simple. I’m available for Real-Time sessions as well as cash meets.

Open to collabs with other dommes provided you have a down to earth, chill demeanor & not full of yourself.

Also open to collabs with studios, photographers and website owners.

Clip slaves can also contact me to discuss opportunities.

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