Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

In 2012 I started attending private parties. Really feeling out the scene. I have been both submissive and dominant on my journey to where I am today.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

About 3 years, I have noticed a lot of respect from both d/s has been lost in the hype of the scene. Submissive do not seem to know their place. A lot of the “submissives” seem to just be guys wanting try it out, or stumble upon some free porn.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Learning new kinks, being able to test my own boundaries with submissives I trust. Seeing my first sounding session. Also my first fire play session.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I am pretty open. My age is something not many know. I am 30, I will be 31 Nov 12th

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I did a lot of soul searching and research, and play time before I discovered my dominant side. I don’t have anything I wish I knew.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

Less submissive greed.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

I like a true sissy. I like transforming subs into perfect sissies. Down to posture. I also like sounding. I fell in love when I had my first sounding session. I also like like a sub who is willing to stuff. Ice, ginger, plugs. I like total control. Everything from budget cuts for the sub, to work out routines. I like a healthy sub.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

UGH scat. I have had so many request some kind of scat from me. Not even that it’s gross ( it is ) but the fact that is human waste and a hygiene problem LOL

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Photography, crafts. Also my spirituality. I love gardening as well.

Does FemDom actually turn you on?

If not, what does? Yes, it does. I have many things that turn me on but the power exchange between D/S is such a turn on for me.

What are some of your turn offs?

Cry babies. beggars, adult babies, scat, vomit. Cocky males.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

One that is willing to give up everything for the power exchange. With a variety of fetishes. Willingness to test his boundaries. Good with communication, tasks, research, conversation.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Approaching me with some kind of offering in a form of cash or gift is the most impressive/pleasing thing they can do. First impressions MATTER and it is the subs first priority. Showing that they value my time, even if it’s just a moment of my time. Is not only a turn on but very important.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

I have never felt more feminine. Such power. Such self love. Also the respect I have for other women.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these?

How do you feel about them? I love clips. I love custom clips as long as they are creative. I love being on cam as well. However I do not meet in person. For many reasons. Some being personal. I also have found that subs are more open with themselves online. More willing to explore more kinks.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Dear subs – selfish is NOT submissive

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