Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I had always had a Dominant personality, but My first year of college (2005), a friend said she was getting into phone sex and would I like to join her? I talked to the company head about it and said “that’s not really My thing, but what about Domination phone sex?” and it all went from there… I learned more about the different things I enjoyed, the names of the fetishes that I had enjoyed privately but never knew what to call. My porn collection exploded when I learned what keywords to search for lol – it was such a wonderful, eye opening experience!

But then I got greedy… I saw the amount of money the company was making off of Me and I said “Fuck that!” I bought a domain name and started My own business. Now I run a similar company for a few other of My Domme friends who don’t have the time or energy to promote for themselves. It’s called Pretty Punk Princesses.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I have been around since 2005, and it’s not hard to see that the economy and political climate has taken a turn. Society is torn between letting those of Us who enjoy a ‘strange’ thing such as this enjoy it openly, or trying to stop it at all costs. Because of this, there is a push back on both sides… There are more people who are just trying to make a buck jumping on the ‘Pro Domme’ or ‘Financial Domme’ bandwagon. Then when a genuine sub tries to serve them and she doesn’t know what she’s doing, the sub becomes jaded. On the other sidem, My subs come to Me thinking that they are sick and twisted for having these desires, and I find Myself having to talk to them about how their desires are their own, and how it’s natural to have and explore them in the safe environment that I provide.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Obviously My first sub. You never forget your first, right? It was through My Niteflirt – And I was having a party at My house at the time. I had at least 6 other friends there at the time, including My boyfriend, when I got My first Niteflirt call. he was into being feminized and publicly humiliated, and I was a little intoxicated, so I put him on speaker and everyone started berating him at once. I loved it, he loved it, it was hilarious! he was honestly the life of the party! We made him sing for us, oink for us, the whole 9 yards. he served Me for YEARS after that, allowing Me to morph him into the perfect sub for Me. he unfortunately left because he craved real time, which I couldn’t offer due to him living in a different state.

Another sub I had was so obsessed with My feet that he bought Me so many shoes that I had to make him buy Me a shoe rack… And I STILL have so many from just this one sub that they are just in boxes in My closet. Lucky for him, shoes are something that I LOVE… Typical girl, I know, but I just love them! I want to have some to match every outfit, and he was more than happy to help Me with that goal.

Finally, there was My first $3,000 night. I had a fin sub who was into forced intoxication and he served for 6 hours straight! I was up until 5 in the morning just draining this one guy and came out with $3,000 at the end, even after the cut of the payment processor I was using. It was so amazing, and it really did spike My desire for financial domination. I think that was the first night that I actually got aroused by the money I was being given.

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I’m kind of a musical geek. I have always wanted to be a Broadway star lol

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

It’s more work than you think. You have to be consistent. Clips will get big, so keep filming them. Don’t trust Clipvia.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

Every Domme must be verified. I’m so sick of seeing subs who are skittish because they served someone who used stock photos and turned out to be a guy or just someone wanting to make money off of what they thought was an easy gig.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Financial domination, bondage (especially shibari), blackmail, key holding, chastity in general, forced intoxication, sissification, grappling, and foot worship. There are a TON more, but those are just My favs.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Not a big fan of toilet fetish. For one, I never fully put My body on display. I’ve seen a lot of new girls who jump right in with tits and ass and pussy pics and clips, and that’s fine if that’s what you’re into. But I feel that My slaves will never truly be worthy to see that much of Me. They will long for what they cannot have or even see. They will beg and plead and love it when I tell them that they are not and never will be worthy. So the idea of using someone as a toilet who’s not even worthy of seeing Me fully naked is just not something I’m into.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

I’m an avid video gamer. I prefer survival horror and sandbox style games. I also do a lot of judo, Brazilian jiujitsu, and a bit of art for fun. I do tight lacing and corset training on both Myself and My slaves, particularly My sissies. I love baking, especially for those I care about as well.

I love astronomy and art. I have the entire Northern hemisphere of constellations tattooed on My right arm. It is by far My favorite tattoo (so far ;3) and I plan to get My favorite nebula (the Orion Nebula, M42) tattooed on My left thigh. I also enjoy music, particularly singing. I have a piece of music from a friend who worked at the Renaissance Festival as a bard tattooed on My right thigh. I’m very passionate about art, particularly tattoos, and plan to have as many as possible. I have 6 currently.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Some aspects of it does. I love the idea of men surrendering things in their lives to make Me live like the Princess I know I am. I’m poly, so I have more than one romantic relationship at a time. My boyfriends and girlfriends all have their own particular things that turn Me on. I’m a big fan of the female body – I find it beautiful in all forms. With men I’m much more picky. They have to be in shape and have a big cock. What can I say? I’m a true size queen lol.

What are some of your turn offs?

Tiny dicks, big guts, men who make promises and never follow through.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

I want a sub who actually wants to be involved in My life. One who actually wants to make My life better in some way. Whether it’s just to amuse Me in a cam session by beating up his cock, or through constant sacrifice in his life so that he can afford to send tributes and gifts. I want a sub who actually cares about Me, not what gets him off. That’s why I love chastity so much. When you’re in chastity, you don’t get to focus on your orgasms. you are more free to focus on what really matters in your life – Me.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Strive to be My ideal. Stretch his limits for Me. Submit to Me fully and completely.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

The freedom. I get to choose My own hours, do My own thing when I want, and I have no one to be beholden to. I don’t have to worry about if My hair color, piercings, tattoos, the way I like to dress, etc are going to piss someone off. I get to be in charge of EVERYthing. Just the way I like it. They way it SHOULD be.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I offer all of these services, and they all have their own benefits and drawbacks. Clips are nice because I can just be Myself and focus on one or a few fetishes at once. However, it completely takes out the personal aspect of the fetishes. I have no feedback to go off of from the individual subs who will be experiencing the clip until after it’s already filmed and sold. The one exception to this rule is the clips where I have a sub with Me. Those are definitely My favorites!

Cam is slightly better, because I can either see or at least hear the sub and his reactions. I am a HUGE fan of how My subs react to what I do to them (or in this case make them do to themselves) and it gets Me to push them further and I gain more enjoyment out of it as well. The drawback here is that I am not the one actually doing these things. I can’t enjoy things like bondage or impact play to their fullest because I’m not actually there holding the ropes or administering the paddle.

Real time is wonderful because I can receive all the feedback from the sub, can enjoy all fetishes equally, and can sometimes get the sub to agree to allow Me to film for My clip stores as well ;3 Unfortunately, it’s quite a long and involved process to set up because we have to account for drive time and location in the scheduling of a real time session. If someone wants to serve Me who lives in California, that’s quite a long travel time to get to Ann Arbor, Michigan!

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

If you don’t have the money or time to serve but still want some humiliation, I actually run a free penis humiliation site as well.

I love gifts too, so if you want to send anything, My amazon wish list.

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