Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I suppose I sort of stumbled into it when I started looking up some of my fetish interests online. It turns out pretty much all the “kinks” I was into have a Domination component, and in my own case a Femdom component specifically. For example, I was naturally attracted to water sports but NEVER into the idea of being on the receiving end-something about that just didn’t sound right to me. The appeal was only in ME being on the giving/top/dominant side of play. So I ended up crossing paths with Femdom online because of my take on all the fetishes I was into. I also realized the more I looked into femdom that it was things I had already been doing naturally and instinctively in my own personal and romantic relationships. So it was a culture that was very easy for me to sort of slide into and I have never stopped learning about and loving femdom since I discovered that world for myself.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I have been into the online Femdom scene for about 5 years professionally and was already enjoying Real time fetish sessions for 3-4 years prior to my start online.

Now how long have I been a Domme? Since I was born! Looking back at my life it is all so clear now and finding femdom has given me a lot of clarity on who I am and always have been.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

THERE. ARE. SO. MANY…lol. A favorite was when I held a LIVE Smallest Penis Contest at Club Subversion in London. Is anything really more fun then SPH in a room full of people? (funny note: AFTER the contest there was a little “disagreement” over whose dicklet had actually been smaller and which shrimpdick deserved 1st place lol).

I also have enjoyed meeting and interviewing such great Dommes for The Online Domme Online Show. It has been a really positive experience overall.

And I HAVE to mention all the wonderful boys who have served me over the years. Thanks, bitches! lol

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

I am extremely superstitious! Now mind you these are all superstitions are of my own making and choosing, not traditional ones (such as black cats crossing paths and stuff). I do not really believe in the traditional popular superstitions. It is funny because otherwise I am a pretty logical person but I enjoy riding the vibe of all my choice superstitions I have created for myself lol.

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

That I would be constantly evolving and to just roll with it.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

The sincerity level of all parties involved.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Humiliation in its many forms tops the list always. Objectification in its many forms tops the list as well. Those two are very prevalent in how I deal with my bitches/slaves and often other kinks and fetishes tend to be filtered through H&O in my delivery of them.

I also love feminization and sissification, humiliation coupled with exposure, human furniture, trampling, findom,human ashtray, slut training, water sports, leg and foot worship, strapping (leather strap for impact play) and SPIT FETISH. Love, love spit fetish. Also I am really into objectifying and mocking cocks. Idearly love SPH but truly believe ALL cocks should be mocked, objectified and humiliated, not just the tiny ones. #cockmock

Let me just say though, that does not mean every sub would be entitled to share in those experiences with me. I love facesitting for example-doesn’t mean I’m willing to let all boys have that privilege. I get to be choosy.

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Probably hypnosis for 2 reasons. One, I am not presently skilled in it-but this could change. I might grow to love it as I start studying it more and learning more about it. As it is I am a novice in that area but am working on upping my skillset in that department. The second reason is because it always feels “scripted” to me. from my own limited experience it is best to have a sort of planned or scripted way of delivering hypnosis, erotic or otherwise. It can be hard for me to work in a scripted kind of boundary as far as fetish. I tend to do best when everything is off the top of my head (well the things I SAY anyways) and to some degree that is counterintuitive to how I currently view hypnosis. But like I said, it is a learning thing and never say never in the world of kink. Check back with me in a year, I might be calling myself HypnoMix for all I know, lol.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

What does “Outside of FemDom” mean? lol..

I like to swim, play a little tennis. spend time with my animal pets and human slaves, try new restaurants, go to museums or other cultural attractions.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

YES. The power exchange turns me on and it is my own sexual interest as well.

What are some of your turn offs?

Cheap or stingy men-nothing disgusts me more.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Loyal, submissive to ME specifically, generous, good sense of humor (which is NOT the same as “being funny”), similar kink interests, preferably 45+, single/no kids good at keeping his mouth shut, and willing to do chores for me. Those would be ideal traits but of course I have had many wonderful slaves who did not fit that mold.

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Court Me.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Being able to live life as the person I was meant to be.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I actually love all of them. I am an exhibitionist when it comes to FemDom specifically. I get off on people being able to see how I treat and use men or how I empower myself through them and so on. I have only been making clips since March 2017 so it is still pretty new to me but I love it. Clips have been a great outlet to express myself creatively. I have enjoyed using them s a way to press my own limits at times, too!

I LOVE going on cam as far as Skype femdom sessions. I love playing with subs who are open to that kind of experience. I do not however use any cam sites or do camming in that more traditional sense. But Skype sessions? Fuck yeah! (I actually love them so much I wrote a PDF guide to help Dommes who might be having trouble with the Skype domination concept. It is available directly from me, through my iWantClips store and will eventually be available on amazon as well but that the amazon ebook version a little ways off at time of this interview).

I have appeared on stage in a femdom capacity as well and LOVE giving “demos.” I am just a total exhibitionist when it comes to FemDom and the Domination of men by ME lol.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

I would like to thank Princess Mika for allowing me to do this interview and also for creating and tending to dommesource.com I think its a great resource for the online femdomme and findomme communities.

I’d also like to take a moment to thank all my fans, supporters, subs, slaves, and bitchboys for being so encouraging to me and for hopping on the Mixtrix train. Awesome ride, huh?

And to anyone who has never seen The Online Domme Online Show, what are you waiting for? It is THE Entertainment Talk Show for the Online FemDom and FinDom Community. See it FREE on mixtrixfix.com OR on youtube!

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