Domme Spotlight Interview

Obey Lady Ashley

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How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

Obey Lady Ashley

I started my clips career doing categories like Face Sitting and Smother. When I decided to change to POV clips, I was inspired by creative, beautiful women using their sexuality as empowerment.

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How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

Obey Lady Ashley

I’ve been a Domme for over seven years. I’ve noticed that the community is a lot bigger and more diverse. There are so many styles of domination for everyone to find a place.

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What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

Obey Lady Ashley

One of my most memorable moments as a FemDomme is when I first made it on the IWC top 50 chart. I was so excited to see my face up there with so many beautiful and successful women.

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Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

Obey Lady Ashley

My favorite food is potatoes. I’ll eat them prepared any way, with or without toppings.

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What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

Obey Lady Ashley

Before becoming a Domme, it would have been helpful to know how to navigate the customer service side of the job. It can be tough early on to know how to enforce your personal standards and know who is worthy of your time.

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If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

Obey Lady Ashley

I would like for more people to know about FemDom, for it to be more mainstream in the world of porn. It’s the most fun!

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What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Obey Lady Ashley

I love to use my sensual domination when interacting with my pets. It comes naturally and we both enjoy feeling my power.

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Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

Obey Lady Ashley

My least favorite fetish is probably foot related categories. I just don’t know how to crack that market and I’ve given up trying.

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Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Obey Lady Ashley

I love listening to and collecting music and going to concerts. I enjoy hiking and spending time outside in my yard in the spring and summer.

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Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Obey Lady Ashley

When I know I’ve got control over my pets, I do get turned on. I use that energy to create more sexy content for my fans.

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What are some of your turn offs?

Obey Lady Ashley

Turnoffs include rudeness, entitlement and poor hygiene.

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Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Obey Lady Ashley

My ideal pet consistently buys my clips. He takes care of my wish list needs from time to time. He keeps in contact with me regularly, but knows to not be needy for my time. My ideal pet is also polite and supportive of the FemDom community.

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What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Obey Lady Ashley

Someone who is looking to earn his place as my pet can impress me with lots of clip orders. Binge orders of older clips and consistently buying my new content.

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What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Obey Lady Ashley

I love getting to make a nice life for myself through expressing my sensuality. Creating fun clips from the comfort of my home is a plus, too!

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Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

Obey Lady Ashley

I only perform in clips. I love having complete control over my work and filming clips gives me an expected outcome I can rely on.

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Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Obey Lady Ashley

Thanks for taking the time to learn a bit about me!

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