Domme Spotlight Interview
Princess Ashland
Domme Source
How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?
Princess Ashland
I actually discovered femdomming through working as a stripper. Quite a few boys would come in requesting femdom sessions and I learned the ropes pretty quickly. The first time story is actually really amusing, I ended up beating a 87 year old man with a heart shaped paddle for two hours and looked super cute doing it in 7inch pink pumps.
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How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?
Princess Ashland
I’ve been a domme online for a year and I haven’t noticed a significant change other than Twitter shadowbanning sex workers and it does make traffic slow down a bit there.
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What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?
Princess Ashland
I’ve got to say my most memorable moment as a femdom would be a session from last February where I face fucked a sub with my foot in a mall parking lot. It was my first time doing something super public and the look on his face when I told him what he had to do was HILARIOUS to say the least.
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Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.
Princess Ashland
I guess it’d be a surprise for my subs to find out that I went to school for cosmetology and started going to college so I can get my business degree to open a salon. Beauty is my passion, especially skincare.
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What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?
Princess Ashland
Marketing! Oh god, I wish I knew more about how to better market myself when I started.
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If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?
Princess Ashland
I guess the one thing I wish I could change is how so many dommes and slaves fall victim to thinking that dommes are better than other sex workers. We’re all sex workers and should be here for each other.
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What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?
Princess Ashland
Humiliation, cuckolding, forced bi, findom, sissification, body worship, ass worship, foot worship, CBT, CEI, SPH.
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Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?
Princess Ashland
I don’t like jerk off instructions too much, I find it boring. Also I hate racial humiliation with a passion when it’s directed towards people of color. I think it’s ridiculous that some dommes aren’t willing to get naked for money because it’s against their personal morals but being a racist for cash is A-okay. Yuck.
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Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?
Princess Ashland
My main hobbies are skincare, beauty in general, I LOVE to cook new recipes, and I read a lot of fantasie novels.
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#10 Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?
Princess Ashland
Yes, especially findom, forced bi and cuckolding.
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What are some of your turn offs?
Princess Ashland
Subs who don’t listen, subs who need to be hand held through everything, poor hygiene, poor self image, and poor communication skills.
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Describe your ideal slave / sub.
Princess Ashland
My ideal slave would be someone who’s very open minded and whose main fetish is being submissive. I met a sub on Niteflirt who’s kink is doing whatever his mistress wanted to do. Like even if he disliked the task he got off on it because she enjoyed it. That’s the ideal sub for me!
Domme Source
What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?
Princess Ashland
To start, tribute. That’s the most important thing at the start of a findom/femdom relationship with me. I require that my time be compensated and expecting free labor from me shows that the sub doesn’t respect me. Secondly, remembering how I like things done, how I like my subs to behave, and remembering little things about me.
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What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?
Princess Ashland
I haven’t done my own housework in six months ahahaha. No but seriously, my favorite part of being a femdom is how much subs jump at the chance to make my life better in each and every way. There’s something very special about waking up to someone ringing your doorbell with your morning coffee eager and ready to clean my whole house and serve me.
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Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?
Princess Ashland
I actually offer all three of theses. I’m an avid fan of clips and making them. Camming and real time are fun but it definitely depends on the sub.
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Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?
Princess Ashland
I’d like to say I’m excited to become more active in the online community, all the dommes I’ve met so far have been absolutely wonderful and the boys have been so much fun to play with. I’ll be increasing my clip output so watch out for some new fun clips from me :)
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