Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

I discovered the world of FemDom not long after I started camming, but due to my situation at the time, was not comfortable joining it yet. I’ve long been an active participant of BDSM in some form or fashion since I was 18 years old though. I actually didn’t start taking on more of a domme stance until last year when I hit a mental wall and completely snapped. I had an epic meltdown and threw a massive tantrum that somehow turned into something constructive. FemDom allowed me to channel all of that hurt and rage into something healthy.      

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

I’ve been mostly full time domming since February 2016. I’m not sure if the industry has changed so much as I have.      

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

In the short time that I’ve been working as a domme, I’ve made a few regulars that stand out. In in particular being a sissy (who may actually be gay), that frustrated me so much that I screamed at him. That turned out to be exactly what he needed, and as a result he broke down in sobs and thanked me for finally helping him get that release he had been craving.      

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

A surprising fact about me that people seem to forget is that I actually am a mom. The MILF Domme act isn’t just pretend, that’s my life. I live the Stepford Wife dream and I write scripts with my mother (sometimes my dad too) in between typical Stepford Wife cleaning, baking, etc. A vast majority of my submissives get quite surprised by this and it never fails to make me chuckle.     What are some things you wish you knew about being a domme before you started?  

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

I wish I had known that the only limits were the ones I set for myself. If I had gone in full speed, like I do everything else in life, then I could have gotten further faster and learned from it sooner. Could have saved myself a lot of frustrating moments if I had just thought to toss all the “rules” out the window.      

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

If I could change anything about the FemDom industry, I would make it more inclusive. I LOVE women of all types and would love to see more diversity (color, shape, style, sexuality, etc) in pairing for FemDom. I think some of the more epic situations for submissives could come from two completely different dommes if they could/would team up.      

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

Some of my favorite fetishes would have to be feminization, forced bi, and cuckolding. As an indulger in all things feminine and girly, literally forcing a submissive to get primped up for fucking is quite thrilling to me. To watch their eyes bulge in shock when they realize my unexpected physical strength has them on their knees with a cock in their mouth before they can blink is incredibly fun.      

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

My least favorite fetish would probably be homewrecking. It’s not in my nature to chase a man, but I will chase a woman, and most homewrecking submissives don’t like the idea of their wives screaming my name in bed long after I’m gone, haha.      

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

Reading, gardening, nail polish, cleaning, being a mom, and World of Warcraft. Mostly standard housewife stuff, but with jazz!      

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Oh goodness YES! I’ve always said my favorite things in life were green, and FemDom typically brings cash, which is very green! It fits right in line with my interests and affords my hobbies (which are even funner when I can dominate a submissive while doing them!)      

What are some of your turn offs?

Disobedience and dirt. I run my home with an iron fist, it’s my way or fuck off, and that’s how I run my domination as well. I don’t tolerate compromise or back talk. The time out corner works well for adults too.      

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

Eager pleaser, capable of filling the silence, able to be invisible when needed, teachable, open minded, compassionate, kind, good manners, well educated, can hold an intelligent conversation.      

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Lots of gifts, buckets of cash. Gifts are my love language, so any submissive that can “woo me” with tangible goods (whether purchased or made), their time, and money will have a much easier time of getting my attention. I like things, especially shiny things.      

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Having an unlimited outlet for my creativity and physical strength is my favorite aspect of being a domme. With no rules, I can use my hobbies and my submissive’s fetishes to push my creative thinking and physical strength to new bounds to help my submissives reach new thresholds and breaking points. It is absolutely exhilarating to see a submissive break down and find release as I’m exploring my creativity and physical limits.      

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I much prefer filming videos, as they can reach a wider range of submissives to be enjoyed, but I do offer private cam time to special submissives for a nominal fee. In person sessions are very rare and only offered to an exclusive few after a specified time and for an exponential fee. My time is dominated by parenting (he comes first, everyone else comes last), so seeing me in person is an exclusive privilege that is painfully difficult to earn. It’s not impossible to serve me in person, just incredibly expensive and takes a looooooooooong time to earn.     Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow dommes and subs?  

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Don’t be afraid to explore. Don’t be afraid to be a tyrant. Do what you want. Play consensually. Play carefully. Push your personal boundaries. Communicate openly.  

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