Domme Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of FemDom and what attracted you to it?

Well, I think this is the question most of the dominant Ladies are constantly facing. Understandable, powerful female nature is something that will always bring much curiosity. Not only by males but also by other women. Ordinary people believe that there is some special kind of mystery around female supremacist. But I like that, it helps to feel special when walking between “regular” folks. But to answer your question, this is how I’ve discovered the kinky world of female domination:

My situation is kind of specific. I’ve got involved in femdom while I was a teenager. To be more precise, somewhere around 17, my Girlfriend at that time (she was 20) started working as a professional Dominatrix. Yep, she was young too and it seems that men were extremely attracted to the idea of young girls being in control. Naturally, under the influence of my GF, I’ve started looking for slaves and getting first domination experiences in this field. It was so good and there was no turning back once I’ve started.

How long have you been a Domme and have you noticed any differences in the industry between now and when you first started?

Again, I have a kind of special situation here again. My first steps as a Domina were somewhere around August of 2011 but professional engagement started a year later. Still very young by the standards of the fetish community, I had a feeling that older Mistresses didn’t take me seriously. Later, I’ve figured out a sobering truth. They were actually afraid that someone so beautiful and young will take most of their slaves. Can you imagine self-confident dominant women that got used to being worshiped and served now suddenly losing their followers? It would be a very awkward scenario for them.

Eventually, this led to getting my first enemies. In the next three years, some older Dommes didn’t even bother to hide how envy they are. Actually, this was an additional motivation for me. Basically, a proof that what I am doing is good and that I am going into a right direction. Besides not giving a flying fuck about that, I sincerely believe that my style is unique so there is no way to have a real competition. I believe that this kind of attitude led to the scene becoming more tolerant or they simply got used to my presence so things are now better than they were before.

What are some of your most memorable moments as a FemDomme?

This is a tough one. You know, as a Dominatrix, I am getting some of the most incredible proposals and also witnessing some incredible situations. I already had to answer this question once so I have the answer ready. Otherwise, it would take me a while before I pick one between my favorite femdom moments.

Like every other woman, I love to be flattered with gifts. Once I got one that really stands out from the crowd. I am talking about the car. Yep, one of the submissive guys handed over keys of his expensive car to me. Unexpected but a welcomed experience. The best part is that we had only one meeting and a coffee together. What do you think, how many Dommes can say that they had this kind of experience?

Please share one factoid about yourself that your subs and fellow FemDommes may be surprised to find out.

Something that always results in surprise is when I tell people that I am self-employed in the online marketing area. For some reason, it seems like that last thing they are expecting from a Dominatrix. I am very passionate about creating digital information products on the subject of personality development.

There is one more thing I would like to mention here. I am regularly and anonymously donating money for animals and children charities.

What are some things you wish you knew about being a Domme before you started?

Oh, I would like to know earlier how males are actually weak and miserable beings. This is something most of the women are not aware, especially young ones.

If you could change one thing about the FemDom industry, what would it be?

Related to #2 above, I would love to see less envy and jealousy on the scene. That is the personal part but if you are asking about the technical one, then it is less content theft. People trying to make money on piracy are nothing but thieves. What people are not getting is that supporting these guys means less quality femdom content online.

What are your favorite fetishes to indulge in with your subs?

If I have to make a top list of top rated femdom fetishes based on my personal taste, then it would be something like this: financial domination, sissyfication, forced bi…

Do you have any least favorite fetishes and why?

I would define myself as a very “clean” person and as someone constantly taking care of the hygiene. Because of that, everything that has to do with scat, vomit or periods of blood is a big NO for me.

Outside of FemDom, what are some of your hobbies?

If you were reading carefully what I was saying here (and you should), you will notice that I’ve mentioned donating money for animal support. I simply love animals and I have two dogs I am often taking in very long walks. It is helping me relax and also stay in good physical shape.

Does FemDom actually turn you on? If not, what does?

Self-confident women as myself love security and luxury. It is as simple as that. Translated to the slave language, it turns me on when I check my bank account and see the money sent by the submissive guys. This is a totally indescribable feeling that is turning me on in a very special way. Sorry for you if you are male, there is no way you will ever experience this.

What are some of your turn offs?

Well, there are many and we don’t have enough time now to count them all. So let me rephrase it and put it this way: I don’t like anything that does not absolutely stick to my own rules.

Describe your ideal slave / sub.

In my case, his physical appearance isn’t important. What counts is the size of the wallet or a bank account. I guess that currently that would be Jeff Bezos or Bill Gates ;) ! I’ve heard that first one is getting a divorce so let’s wait for a while and see will he stay at the top of my list after his loving wife takes half of the wealth… hahaha

What could a sub do that would please and/or impress you the most?

Just as you are already guessing, constant and regular payouts on my bank account will get my attention and make me happy.

What is your favorite aspect of being a FemDomme?

Freedom of being what I really am, a money-hungry sadist with a heart. As a FemDomme, no one will judge me because of this.

Please comment on how you feel about performing in clips, on cam, and in person. Do you offer each of these? How do you feel about them?

I feel comfortable doing it, and for me, there is no difference between private sessions and those recorded with a camera. Considering myself as a versatile person, I am also into organizing genuine fetish parties. More info about them is available on my website.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Thank you for the interview. Dommesource is a really great informative site. I wish you all the best.

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