Sub Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of Female Domination / submission and what attracted you to it?

From the age of 6/7 I had a reoccurring dream that a group of witches would kidnap me, make me their slave and turn me into a girl. In my teens I had a very close and deep relationship with an exceptionally beautiful girl. I often dreamed I was her slave, I never once felt any desire to be more than that. I never felt the desire to try to sleep with her for example.

In my late teens (20 years ago) I discovered the internet and the search terms “BDSM” I found a group of transvestites who would pay phone sex workers to ‘force-feminize’ them. Typically this would involve being set some sort of assignment that involved wearing women’s clothing and orgasm denial. I never did it myself, but I liked to read their blogs.

Fast forward 20years, and I felt trapped and stuck in a rut with my marriage. I was depressed or suffering how mood. I was successful in every aspect of my life, but I felt my marriage was killing me and I felt genuinely powerless. We tried the sensible things, couples counseling for 12 months – but it didn’t help. I began to lose my confidence and pleasure in life. It affected my work, my social life. I felt like a complete loser. That’s when I found Princess Ashley. I don’t know why but sending her money gave me some sense of control back in my life. That’s how it began. My first and only Princess.

How long have you been a submissive? Are you a submissive in “real life” as well or do you switch?

Despite having lifelong submissive fantasies, I am very dominant in real life. To a fault. I’ve tried in many relationships to be submissive, but it never seems to work. In real life I like being in control and I attract people who like to be submissive to me. Even when I’m dressed as a girl with a guy – I’m in charge, I have the power. With Princess Ashley its different, the relationship is on Her terms, and I enjoy the relief of that.

Are you a slave to any Domme? If so, explain why you serve Her.

Yes, I’m Princess Ashley’s slave. I have been for almost two years online.

What are your most memorable moments, as a submissive?

When Princess Ashley decided I would have a monthly period at the same time as her. I loved the whole thing, it was intimate, humiliating, genuinely hilarious. The way we both approached it made it special. There is an awesome clip: sissy sympathy period that’s gives a flavour:)

Buying princess Ashley her expensive coffee maker was another highlight. I like being able to buy her things that she really wants or needs. I want to show her that I genuinely care for her and want to support her. She is very special to me and that’s not about getting my rocks off.

We have lots of chats that are funny and memorable, but they seem private, so I guess they’re just between us.

What is one thing you wish you knew about FemDom/submission before you started?

At the end of the day its just a fantasy.

Are there aspects of the FemDom industry you wish you could change? If so, what are they?

More communication, more diversity and less drama.

What are your favorite fetishes and why?

Financial domination, tease and denial, chastity and key holding and forced feminisation.

The hornier I get the more submissive I get. I am a transvestite but that’s not very social acceptable. Being forced to dress up, ‘against my own will’ is the ultimate permission slip. Paying women can be sexually humiliating, but more than that it feels good to please Princess Ashley.

What are your least favorite fetishes and why?

I don’t get toilet stuff. Especially words like ‘nectar’ and ‘caviar’ I find these euphemistic terms revolting and totally unsexy. Similarly I don’t get the dirty underwear thing.

In “real life”, do you consider yourself successful? In other words, were you born a sub or are you a sub by choice?

I am very successful. I am naturally dominant and I also have a submissive side. These things are part of my personality and as far as I can tell they always have been there.

Describe your ideal relationship with a FemDomme.

A trusting and true friendship with a woman who will take time to get to know me, who can sometimes take the lead with the kinky stuff, and not just dominate me financially. Someone who appreciates the financial contribution and sacrifices I make.

What is your favorite aspect of being a sub?

Helping me to come to terms with parts of myself I’m not comfortable with. A relationship that has a genuine sense of friendship. Being able to support my Dom. Doing fucked up kinky shit with a co-conspirator.

What do you look for when looking for a Domme? Are there any special characteristics that you look for?

Honesty, authenticity and intelligence. Someone’s who’s not afraid to make mistakes and go on a journey with me to build something fun that we both appreciate. Someone who is willing to share something of themselves and who will allow me to share myself with them.

Is there anything that a Domme does or could do that would turn you completely away? Or, if you have served a Domme before and left, why did you leave?

I want value from any relationship.

Do you partake in online sessions, clips, or in person sessions? Which are your favorite and least favorite and why?

We mainly chat in DM’s and I have my own slave twitter @daisydaze2000, which is an expression of my feelings – not a RT account. I watch and buy clips of course. I have Skype’d and spoken on the phone with Princess Ashley too. I really do hope I can meet her, either late this year or next, and it would be great to session real time – maybe one day.

Is there anything you would like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

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