Sub Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of Female Domination / submission and what attracted you to it?

I was 14 and my sister friends use to tease me, I really enjoyed it. They would make me do task’s for them and I loved the idea of women having power over me!

How long have you been a submissive? Are you a submissive in “real life” as well or do you switch?

I am a switch and have been for about 15 years. If I am going to sub or Dom it depends on the woman I am with. However, usually I prefer to sub to women.

Are you a slave to any Domme? If so, explain why you serve Her.

No. I service sub to one woman because I get a great pleasure from seeing her happy. I have submissive scenes with a few other because I find it very pleasurable and I feel they deserve my submission. I wont sub to just any woman, I need a connection on a mental and physical level.

What is one thing you wish you knew about FemDom/submission before you started?

How to communicate better with the Domme. I wish i knew to talk less about my needs and more about theirs. Then we can find where i can fit in to service them properly.

What are your favorite fetishes and why?

Physically my favorite fetish is providing service such as cleaning a home or chauffeuring. Mentally my favorite fetish is being in chastity. I love giving up such power over myself to a trusted partner.

In “real life”, do you consider yourself successful? In other words, were you born a sub or are you a sub by choice?

Yes, i consider myself successful. I have a long way to go but I think I am in a great space right now. I consider myself a switch, I enjoy both aspects equally. To me its about the woman I am with that will decide if I am going to Dom or sub.

What is your favorite aspect of being a sub?

Servicing a Domme and taking care of her needs.

Is there anything that a Domme does or could do that would turn you completely away? Or, if you have served a Domme before and left, why did you leave?

Yes, selfishness. If we are going to be in a relationship its important that both our needs are being met.

Is there anything you would like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Yes. The BDSM lifestyle is a great way for people to really open up to each other and improve their lives. However, this only works if we communicate, are honest, and put in the work to make it improve our lives. We are all trying for the same thing, we want to be happy and have our needs met. This is beautiful but we have to put the work in, we have to be in it for all of us, not just ourselves! DommeSource is a great place to begin the journey, use it and allow it to help you!

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