Sub Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of Female Domination/ and what attracted you to it?

Since I can remember I always had a love for feet. So I always saw myself at the feet of some beautiful women, worshipping them out of submission. Then I found through the internet the whole Femdom, BDSM scene which really turned me on. I heavily enjoy inflicting pain on myself and ever then I dreamt of my balls being smashed to mush by a beautiful woman. I like being controlled by a woman and standing there helplessly.

How long have you been a submissive? Are you a submissive in “real life” or do you switch?

I guess it’s about ten years ago I saw the first signs of being submissive (I always wanted to lick, kiss, massage the girls feet). In real life I’m a rather timid person, tending to be more on the submissive side. But I don’t show it off as obviously.

Are you a slave to any Domme? If so, explain why you serve Her.

Right now I’m only on trial slavery until I can prove myself worthy for my Princess’ attention. I want to serve her because she is extremely beautiful. And she gave me a very honest dick rating which put me in the place I rightfully belong.

What are your most memorable moments as a submissive?

I think one was after a class camp. We sat in the train. Opposite of me sat two girls, both good looking but one was really beautiful. They removed their shoes and put their feet right on my legs and in between them. During the whole journey I smelled their stinky, sweaty feet and was teased by the constant movement. Other thing was when I once beat my balls so much that they would hurt the entire next day and I could even feel them the day after.

What is one thing you wish you knew about FemDom/ submission before you started?

That there are not only a lot of fake slaves but also a lot of fake Dommes.

Are there aspects of the FemDom industry you wish you could change? If so, what are they?

There are just not a lot contact sites where you could find people who are ready for real life meeting. Self inflicting pain is one thing but it would be much more fun if you had somebody else do it.

What are your favorite fetishes and why?

I really love feet as I said, maybe it’s just because it’s so humiliating to bow down and kiss, lick feet. I also really like cbt or torturing myself in general.

What are your least favorite fetishes and why?

Rubber and latex I never had any affinity to that. Also anything illegal and permanent damaging I’m not into.

In “real life” do you consider yourself successful? In other words, were you born a sub or are you a sub by choice?

Well in the work line I would say I’m in a good spot. For my social part I would consider myself more of a loser. Don’t have many friends, don’t go out that much, being a little hesitant in social contact.

Describe your ideal relationship with a FemDomme.

It would be nice if the Domme shapes my life. Setting new rituals, getting rid off old habits. Make me work for her. Make me humiliate, or suffer for her. Most important thing is I don’t want to be ignored completely. I know the Dommes time is very precious and a slave is never worthy of her but I can’t commit to a relation that only consists of the slave sending money to the Dommes account and nothing more, not one reaction.

What is your favorite aspect of being a sub?

I think it’s nice to please your Domme. If I can make my Domme just a little bit happier I am pleased.

What do you look for when looking for a Domme? Are there any special characteristics that you look for?

I think a Domme should be totally aware of the fact that she is the more important part in a sub/Domme relationship. She should be the one who controls.

Is there anything that a Domme does or could do that would turn you completely away? Or, if you have served a Domme before and left, why did you leave?

I really hate dishonesty. That’s the reason I left the only Domme I had before.

Do you partake in online sessions, clips, or in person sessions? Which are your favorite and least favorite and why?

I never actually had a real session so I don’t know what I would like most.

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