Sub Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of Female Domination / submission and what attracted you to it?

I honestly don’t remember how I discovered it. But I do remember my first domme and exploring with her. It was all so new then. It was before the whole, ‘spoiled bratty girl’ thing began online. I didn’t know much about fetishes at the time and definitely wasn’t into the same things then that I’m into now. It has grown so much for me, changed over time. I’ve evolved as a sub. As far as what attracted me I’d have to say it was the rush, which is the same thing that keeps me coming back, even today.

Are you a slave to any Domme? If so, explain why you serve Her.

I’m not at the moment but have been in the past. I served her because there was a real connection. And not just with the domme/sub aspect, we also had a mutual respect and relationship outside of that. You can truly feel comfortable and become the sub you want to be when you meet a domme who respects you for your submission. She realizes that it is truly a gift.

What is one thing you wish you knew about FemDom/submission before you started?

How addicting it can be and how it can completely change you. I’ll never be the same and I’ll never enjoy normal vanilla sex again.

What are your favorite fetishes and why?

I’d say my favorite fetishes are financial domination, edging and brainwashing, all combined, lol. This sends me into a deep state of sub space which is what I live for.

In “real life”, do you consider yourself successful? In other words, were you born a sub or are you a sub by choice?

I’m not sure whether I was born a sub or am a sub by choice. I guess for all subs we must have been born with some qualities that made us more submissive, and then we explore and make the choice to continue.

What is your favorite aspect of being a sub?

For me being a sub is all about sub space. It’s a deep, hypnotic, blissful altered state of consciousness that I love to float in.

Is there anything that a Domme does or could do that would turn you completely away? Or, if you have served a Domme before and left, why did you leave?

I’d turn away from a domme if she didn’t respect me or my limits. Or if I could tell she just didn’t get ’it’.

Is there anything you would like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

Hmmmm yes. I’m looking for a real domme/sub relationship. Not online, but real, in person. A relationship with a domme. I’ve had it before and it’s what I want. I don’t want a normal relationship. I want to love someone I also serve, and have her love me, even though she does the most degrading things to me. I’m much more than a sub, you might be surprised by who you meet. ;) If you’re looking for this too, lemme know ;)

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