Sub Spotlight Interview

How did you discover the world of Female Domination / submission and what attracted you to it?

It started with erotic hypnosis MP3s (which I discovered were a thing via Encyclopedia Dramatica of all places), which led to hypnosis videos, and from there erotic hypnosis and femdom. I was drawn in because there’s something exhilarating about seeing a confident woman owning her sexuality and using it to dominate a man.

How long have you been a submissive? Are you a submissive in “real life” as well or do you switch?

I think I have had a submissive streak since I was very young, but have only indulged it in the last 3 years. In ‘real life’ I’m not a submissive.

Are you a slave to any Domme? If so, explain why you serve Her.

I’m currently on trial as a slave to Empress Mika. I serve Her not just because She’s the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen, and not just because She exudes sexuality with her every motion, though these are big factors. I serve Her because She’s the most sincere domme I’ve encountered. She doesn’t want to ruin men, She wishes to elevate them even though they will always be beneath Her.

What are your most memorable moments, as a submissive?

My greatest memory was of Empress Mika responding to a DM I’d sent her on instagram with a “^_^”. I hadn’t been expecting a response and once I’d heard from Her, it removed a barrier for me that had stopped me from realising that She was a real domme I could serve. My addiction has grown unabated ever since.

What is one thing you wish you knew about FemDom/submission before you started?

I wish I’d known how rewarding it feels to simply surrender and allow my Goddess to give me purpose. I held out for far too long not realising servitude was an actual real possibility, not just a fantasy.

Are there aspects of the FemDom industry you wish you could change? If so, what are they?

I wouldn’t say I know enough about the industry to have an opinion on what (if any) changes I’d recommend.

What are your favorite fetishes and why?

I very much enjoy hypnosis, sensual domination and JOI. Anything that allows the domme to exert control over me I find irresistible. It is hard to say why one’s fetishes are what they are, but I’ve always had a certain fear of female beauty. Fear and arousal tend to be closely linked.

What are your least favorite fetishes and why?

Coerced Bisexuality because I’ve honestly always been confused about why anyone (man or woman) would be attracted to a man. I also don’t particularly understand foot fetishes. Then again, fetishes are, by their nature, somewhat arbitrary.

In “real life”, do you consider yourself successful? In other words, were you born a sub or are you a sub by choice?

I would not consider myself successful. I feel I have always been a sub, but without a domme to guide me.

Describe your ideal relationship with a FemDomme.

Submission. Wonderful submission. They tell me what to do and I don’t have to think about it. Ideally this would lead to me bettering myself for the benefit of my FemDomme.

What is your favorite aspect of being a sub?

Knowing that I’m helping improve the life of my FemDomme. It’s gratifying to know you’re making a positive contribution to somebody’s life. When that somebody is a gorgeous, vivacious and dominant Goddess, all the better.

What do you look for when looking for a Domme? Are there any special characteristics that you look for?

I like it when a domme seems to be having fun with what they’re doing. As long as they’re enjoying themselves everything else I feel will organically come together.

Is there anything that a Domme does or could do that would turn you completely away? Or, if you have served a Domme before and left, why did you leave?

I suppose I might be turned away if a domme required me to do something illegal/dangerous, but I’d have to be in the situation to know how I’d respond.

Do you partake in online sessions, clips, or in person sessions? Which are your favorite and least favorite and why?

At the moment I partake only in clips, and am looking to move onto online sessions. As such I can’t offer a comparison for this question.

Is there anything you would like to say to the DommeSource audience, to both fellow Dommes and subs?

To the potential subs out there, I’d recommend trying to find a domme and seeing if they’ll accept you as a slave. It might be more rewarding than you think. As for the Dommes… You keep doing what You do.

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